[ SECRET POST #3150 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3150 ⌋

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Comments

Re: How do you break up with a guy you're not even dating?

[herpymcderp]

How about, "I just don't think we have chemistry, but I still think you're a cool person."

You don't have to apologize (and I definitely wouldn't) since it is what it is and there's no changing not being into someone. Do try to be nice about it though.

Re: How do you break up with a guy you're not even dating?

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

Do try to be nice about it though.

Honestly, that's my problem. I'm too nice, I feel like a bitch for wanting to break it off, like maybe I'm being too harsh on him and maybe I should just try a date alone with him and maybe....

I know I'm only kidding myself, it's that exact line of thinking that got me into this in the first place (I wasn't that enthusiastic about the double date but thought that I might me unfair to the guy and I should at least try).

Re: How do you break up with a guy you're not even dating?

[herpymcderp]

Nah. Dating someone because you're trying to be nice and give them a chance is as unfair to them as it is to you. Nine times out of ten your feelings won't change, and then you only wind up hurting their feelings more and wasting your own time.

Just be gentle but direct and don't apologize for your feelings.

Re: How do you break up with a guy you're not even dating?

[(Anonymous)]

OK, if you're worried about being nice:

It is much, much more shitty to tell someone you like them when you don't. How would they feel if you lie to them like that?

I know it may seem harder right now to just tell him no - but it will be MUCH harder later on when you're actually in a relationship with someone you don't even like.

JUST SAY NO. Don't even go there.