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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-21 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #3152 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3152 ⌋

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[Dresden Codak]


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[Final Fantasy X]


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[personal profile] fscom 2015-08-21 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Image: Flamingo preening itself
Text: I feel I only genuinely like something if I can't talk about it or rec it without downplaying my interest, sometimes even if anon.
Not that I have unforgivably horrible taste and know it. Seems to be overblown fear of being rejected.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-21 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Are you me, anon? I felt this way for ages, and still do to some extent. There are only a couple of exceptions, like Star Trek, that I can fangirl over openly in a way that matches how much I love it.

I'm like that about RL stuff and people too, though I don't think it's a rejection thing for me, just a...can "macho" apply to girls?
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[personal profile] elaminator 2015-08-22 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
Awww. :( I'm sure that's not what would happen, anon.

Personally, even when I'm not into a fandom I find it nice to hear others speak passionately about their fandom. If you have a lot of enthusiasm for a subject it's going to shine through! When people get all excited about their interests I find it endearing, and automatically want to respond in kind. (Even if I can't because I'm not always well-versed on the subject in question.)

You don't need to be ashamed of your love, but I also won't say you're silly for being this way; sometimes you can't control what you feel.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-22 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
This probably won't seem to help but....it MAY happen. I've seen people be rejected for stupid things. But the important thing is to remember that if someone rejects you for fanning over something they aren't worth it to begin with. If someone is cruel to you and rejects you for a senseless reason of enjoying something too much, their rejection should not be viewed as a judgement on yourself but a chance to be free from a horrible toxic friendship.

/ sorry jaded anon
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[personal profile] elaminator 2015-08-22 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
Nah, I don't think this is a bad comment; you have a point. I don't think any decent, sensible person would reject you for liking something "too much", but if someone does then absolutely you are right; there's no need to be down about it because they don't deserve that kind of reaction. If they have some weird problem with your interest and enthusiasm and can't deal with you having different tastes than them, they aren't someone you want as a friend anyway.

And frankly, someone is always going to judge you for something, even if it's not a fair or accurate judgement. Might as well try not to let it get you down, you know?
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[personal profile] ninety6tears 2015-08-22 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure if this is the same thing, but I have a couple favorite books and things that I hesitate to recommend or even talk about with people I don't have a pretty good guess will appreciate that thing because I just respond to them so personally that having some respectful disagreement with someone who doesn't hold my point of view about it really just isn't fun conversation like it can be with other fandoms I like.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-22 04:24 am (UTC)(link)
Do you ever get that thing where someone constantly goes on and on about something you're not really interested in and eventually you get really sick of the thing and it starts to irritate you? I'm always worried that if I gush too much about stuff I like, that will happen to people. I don't want people to hate the things I love :[

(Anonymous) 2015-08-22 07:54 am (UTC)(link)
I get that feeling too :( The worst part is you can realize when it is happening.

I remember times when I was super excited and gushing about something, but then someone will say 'is that all you ever talk about?' and that's probably why I never talk about stuff I like anymore.

Even if they don't come out and say it like that, you can tell when a person is annoyed.

Whenever I hear someone excited about something it makes me happy and I like to see people being passionate about stuff, but some people just don't care at all.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-22 07:49 am (UTC)(link)
Same. Sometimes I wonder what happened to me I used to be so shameless and openly talked about stuff I like, now I just keep everything to myself.