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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-24 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3155 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3155 ⌋

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Re: DA

(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Anon was TWELVE. When you're that young, you're not making those types of comments because you've given the subject a lot of thought, you're just cracking a joke and probably parroting what you've heard other adults say. The appropriate response to that is a gentle, brief explanation that this isn't a nice thing to say even as a joke, NOT an hour long lecture about misandry and how awful women are.

It's one thing to take a remark like that personally, but if you don't consider the context and realize that you're talking to an ignorant kid and not a raving man-hating feminazi, then that's on you, not the kid.