[ SECRET POST #3155 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3155 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

The feel good shit in this thread is sickening. You were wrong OP. He was wrong. When you're wrong, it's ok to feel bad.

[(Anonymous)]

Sure, she should feel bad. But she should also accept what she did and move on. The guy is a scumbag, and if she sticks around she's just going to fall into the trap of 'maybe I'm different, teehee'. It's also really shitty for his girlfriend. Especially since she knows how it feels to be cheated on.

[elaminator]

I don't see it as 'feel good'. I don't think anyone is implying that what OP did was fine, just that she's made a mistake and obviously can't take it back.

OP did an awful thing, he did too, and I think her feelings of guilt are perfectly reasonable given the situation, but I mean...what else are we supposed to say, you know?

IMO OP, it would be best if you distance yourself from this guy; I can't see this situation ending well if you stay friends with him.

[(Anonymous)]

She was 22 and emotionally vulnerable. He was 35 and should fucking know better, and there's almost no possible way he didn't know better. Yeah, OP made a mistake, but let's not pretend they're equally liable here.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, no. A twenty two year old will still know helping a guy cheat on his girlfriend is a fucking horrid and scumbaggy thing to do, ESPECIALLY when she was hurt by a guy cheating on her as well. All the shitty feelings she felt when she found out he cheated on her is exactly how this guys' girlfriend is going to feel. She's not innocent by any stretch.

[(Anonymous)]

Newsflash: OP knows, it's in the very first post.

Newsflash 2: Literally nobody is saying she's innocent or without any responsibility in what happened. Nearly all the comments acknowledge that it was a stupid mistake to make, but that what matters is what she does in the future. Suggesting that a far more experienced 35 year old man is a little more liable than a vulnerable 22 year old woman isn't saying the woman is innocent, it's just how real life works.

Newsflash 3: Your bitterness and hatred of young women is really, really obvious. People smell it coming off you like a fresh turd in the sun. If you're a dude, that's sad (and all too typical), but if you're a woman, that's even sadder as it's a form of self-loathing. I'm guessing you're either quite young yourself and haven't learned compassion for other peoples' mistakes as well as your own, or you're old and was somehow absent the day that important life lesson was taught.

[(Anonymous)]

DA

Newsflash 2.5: Neither is suggesting it's the person in a relationship who's more liable for the cheating since they already have a partner.

Newsflash 4: Almost everyone have advised her to distance herself from him for everyone sakes.

[(Anonymous)]

I FORGOT

Newsflash 5: It's one thing to feel bad, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't move on... which is the point everyone has been making so I've no idea how anon got that "feel good shit" from.