[ SECRET POST #3155 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3155 ⌋

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Comments

[herpymcderp]

I wouldn't say it's exactly your obligation to police someone else in what they want to do outside the bounds of a relationship. Maybe he's deeply unhappy in said relationship and is looking for a reason/way to end it. Maybe being open is a thing that has been discussed and he wanted to test it out.

You don't really know what's going on and you shouldn't feel bad unnecessarily.

I tell people straight up that I'm attached if I'm going to have sex with them, but I also make sure to let them know that I have an open relationship so it's not going to wind them up in any trouble later. It just stops people from catching feelings if everything is laid out up front, I find.

It seems a lot less dickish that he'd admit his status to you rather than trying to hide it, tbh, but that said I don't know the whole story either so... who knows. He might well be an asshole who's playing with everyone's emotions.