[ SECRET POST #3155 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3155 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I see two main possibilities here:

1. The way your friend is handling this is showing her to be someone who isn't all that nice. In this case, it's probably best to start thinning out your friendship. You don't necessarily have to drop her on the spot, but don't do things to reinforce your friendship either. Let it weaken.

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2. Your friend is not doing anything wrong, but the way she's handling her situation is not how you think she should handle it and you're annoyed about that. In which case, either accept that she doesn't have to handle it the way you would and let it go. Or decide your friendship isn't worth your effort and start thinning out your friendship.

Either way, don't come to your friend's defense unless you actually mean it. You shouldn't be feeling like you did her this big favor by going out of your way to defend her. If you defend her, you should be doing it because you believe it's the right thing to do - either because the force with which she's being attacked is unfair, or because she didn't do anything wrong in the first place. If you don't feel she's being treated unfairly and that defending her is the right thing to do, don't do it.