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⌈ Secret Post #3159 ⌋

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[Knights Errant]

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06. [SPOILERS for Tales of the Abyss]

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07. [WARNING for rape]

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09. [WARNING for child sexual abuse]

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But had she been 18, it would not have been rape. From the post is sounded consensual except for her age (which she lied about apparently).

Yeah, there is still the sexual harassment thing though. That's not exactly great.

And if wishes were horses, rides would be free. It's not okay to rape teenagers even if they lie to you.

Sorry, but how does an adult tell if a girl is 18 or 16 if she says she's 18 and looks it? Do you think adults are all psychic or have magic under-18-detection powers?

When I was 16, I went to clubs all the time and did all sorts of sexual acts with guys who were older than I was. I snuck into the 18-and-over clubs or the bars and I doubt these guys knew I was 16. I was there to have a good time and I did. I have a healthy attitude about sex and wasn't scarred by the experience. People have a hair trigger about this that is mind-bogging.

I find that kind of sad. Did you not have parents?

Why is that sad??

IDK exactly, just struck me as a loss of childhood too soon or something? Really not sure but I felt very melancholy reading that.

That's your issue, not mine. I was an adult in my own mind and definitely ready for what I wanted. Americans tend to be puritanical. But no one got hurt, I didn't get pregnant, we practiced safe sex, and I learned wonderful things about my sexuality and how to be assertive about my sexual needs, which a lot of women in my age group still haven't learned, as far as I can tell from conversations I have with my friends. I've always felt lucky.

I'm glad you found some way to make your life meaningful. I'm sure others (in the US I presume) would not have such a charitable view.

You are so odd.

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"meaningful"

oh my god you have issues

But you weren't an adult, you were a precocious kid who opened her/himself up to all kinds of dangerous situations. No matter how you justify it to yourself. Where were your parents or any adult presence other than the ones who took advantage of you sexually? I feel bad for you. Even if you tell me to go fuck myself for this opinion.

Wow. You have no idea beyond your own little worldview, back the fuck off.

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That was a lot of damned hard work to be taken advantage of. I mean I had to evade my extremely strict Old Country parents and then sneak into clubs and stalk my prey over by the amps stacks and then cut them away from the pack. I don't think I've put quite as much effort into anything since. But thank you deeply for your earnest concern. We'll be sure to give you a gold star at the next Judgmental Parenting meeting.

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Not sad at all, sounds like an awesome time. I wanted to do all those things, new about safe sex, but was terribly repressed. Am still dealing with insecurity w/ my sexuality. KUDOS TO YOU!

Thank you! But as I said, I've always felt lucky. Kudos to you for how far you've come and all the great sex in your future. :)

so, you keep swinging....?

Personally, I card all my sexual partners, just to be sure.

There's a chance someone might slip through screening with a convincing fake, but on the up side, the expression on most grown adults' faces when you ask to see their ID at the bedroom door is priceless.

Statuatory rape and rape are different things.

NO

THEY

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nayrt It is possible for individuals who have been statutorily (legally by dint of age) raped to have felt they were fully giving consent, were in love, and thoroughly enjoyed themselves. Years after too. Possible, perhaps not common.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marcus_Dixon

Maybe if you read this, you'll realize, that no, sometimes they are NOT the same things.

Oh FFS. Try stepping outside of your little black-and-white world once in a while. I'm tired of hearing about some 27-year-old guy who can't get a job due to still being on the sex offender registry after ten years because people with attitudes like yours think it's fine to COMPLETELY DESTROY THE LIFE OF A HIGH SCHOOL STUDENT because a consenting relationship between a 15-year-old and a 17-year-old so offends your sensibilities.