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I have been making very cynical comments, I agree. Very sparingly, as I'm not even here every day. And I doubt the dude you're talking about even saw any of them as I'm under the impression he too has been sparse.

Again: I have a life. I hope you have a life outside current and past relationships as well. If FS was just "that site with my ex" to me I wouldn't be here in the first place.

Edit: Part of this is due to the fact that most secrets are for fandoms I don't know a damn thing about. I need to watch more anime apparently.

Edited 2015-08-30 03:17 (UTC)

I think the only anime to really have a ton of secrets is Utena

which you actually probably should watch tbh

nayrt

It's a combination of us not knowing what happened besides that it was something bad, hearing a bunch of unconfirmed rumors about cheating, then reading your comments sounding very cynical regardless of whether they were directly related to any of this or not. You do comment sparingly but the overwhelming majority of those spare comments are cynical, and from the side of those anons who didn't know the story, jumping to hurt and bitter about cheating looks like the natural conclusion.

You have a life, but they don't hear about it, so they can only go on what you tell them, which is to not trust people and cheaters suck. You know?

As anons above, I would assume you have a life. But we can't tell it just from your comments. So when the majority of your noticable comments are in reply to life or relationship threads with that bitter edge and then you write this essay ...yeah it looks like it's all you ever talk about and that it's eating you up inside.

Noodle on the otherhand is clearly all over the place NOT blogging about a failed relationships or making bitter comments about trust or life.

Obviously you don't intend to come across like this, but it's the only face you're giving us.

Noodle on the otherhand is clearly all over the place NOT blogging about a failed relationships or making bitter comments about trust or life.

Well... you can see that his situation was different, no?

He's apologized, but there's going to be a different reaction from someone who never got hurt.

Edited 2015-08-30 03:59 (UTC)

It's more that from the comments, the ratio about the ex relationship is less often. If at all.

Like, maybe post in the "how's your day" threads? Comment on a fandom you don't know with "nice picture" or give one of the anons with a bad day a hug or word of wisdom or something.

So that the ratio of comments become less "oh it's just chard in a permanent cynical snit" and more of a "oh chard's talking about something bad that happened".

Otherwise every cranky comment is probably going to be attributed to what we know that might be making you cranky. If that makes sense.

I got to sleep now. Good luck.

Like, maybe post in the "how's your day" threads? Comment on a fandom you don't know with "nice picture" or give one of the anons with a bad day a hug or word of wisdom or something.

So let me get this straight. To make sure I don't look too hung up on this, I should deliberately make a bunch of cover posts in threads I never normally touch to make absolutely sure nobody thinks I'm thinking about it, thereby forcing myself to think about it more than I usually do

Well tbh I think some people would like to know how your day is going or your thoughts outside of an ex-relationship. I'm using those as an example since I have no idea of your interests so obviously can't suggest general threads you like. You post pictures sometimes.

You keep saying you have a life but we can't see that reflected in your comments. Either change that or just accept random people are going to see you from your comments

Judging from the comments here I don't think anyone actually cares about how my day is going except as a potential target. Stream folks definitely care, but it looks like I won't have them anymore. Maybe some of them are the anons.

Whelp.

Edited 2015-08-30 04:29 (UTC)

Ahhhh don't let the kvetchers get you down. There's just as many people who respect you. Because you're a cool person.

Wait. Becuase people don't want to hear about all the dirty details of your relationship you think that means they will just be all mean in ever other post? Post in kaijincendre's posts for the weekend. They are always friendly.

Not just here, dude.

It's cool. I can take it.

"Judging from the comments here I don't think anyone actually cares"

Really. Really? As one of the non-stream anons that was happy for you this is p. harsh and dismissive of the rest of us. You say no one cares because you won't believe us if we say we do. There isn't anything we can do about that. I'm just going to go now.

Ugh. Look dude. Have you seen a lot of the people in this thread? If you don't think someone would react kind of poorly to that I'm not sure what you expect.

I believe you and I'm sorry.

Edited 2015-08-30 04:55 (UTC)

I'm sorry too. That came off more harshly than I intended, too.

I understand your cynicism but like three or four people have literally said they do care how your day is going and tried to be encouraging or give advice however unasked for, and I don't think they'd lie for the hell of it. You could have people to talk to like you seemed to want but all the focus in these threads are on the people being dicks. This is where cynicism starts backfiring, idk.

How are you doing now?

Well. Didn't have the appetite for dinner. Drama is doing wonders for my diet let me tell you.

I'll be okay.

Ha. I'd try it but with how angry some people are getting I think I'll stick to more exercise.

Anyway, if you'd ever like a random anon to talk to who isn't involved in all this, I could make an account and message you but it's totally up to you. Offer's open anyway.

I hope things work out with the stream either way.

But this isn't you talking about your day. This is you sharing an inappropriate amount of information because you are pissy that your ex banned you from their private movie stream.

SA as the first reply here.

I saw your new post, I respect that. You're handling this way better than I think I would. :) I hope that doesn't come off facetious.

No, just whining totally makes it look you are not too hung up on this!

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