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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-05 03:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #3167 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3167 ⌋

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belladonna_took: richard armitage (Default)

Re: What questions do you have?

[personal profile] belladonna_took 2015-09-05 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
That's a pretty complex situation.

As to what you should do, I don't know. I mean, I can understand why you'd want to comfort your mother, but it kind of sounds like if you tried to talk your sister into seeing her again, your sister would probably feel like she didn't have anyone left on "her side" if she views you as equally victimised? She might be feeling pretty isolated at the moment, even if she does have professional help.

There's not really a right thing to do except for you to offer support as it's needed to each of them, if you want to.

Maybe your mother might benefit from talking to someone herself? If she is looking to still have contact with your sister, she might offer to attend family therapy sessions with her. It would be on your sister's terms, and she may say no, but it would still let her know she's willing to try.

This must be really tough on you. I hope you're doing okay, anon. Take care of yourself.