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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-05 03:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #3167 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3167 ⌋

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Re: What questions do you have?

[personal profile] caerbannog 2015-09-05 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Anon, you don't do anything. I know it's hard, but getting involved will make it worse. And playing peacemaker is stressful as fuck.

Either way, one of them is going to be hurt. Either your mum, cause she's not currently being spoken to, or your sister because she's currently dealing with all these emotions and you're forcing her to talk to one of the people she's currently in therapy about. Not a good mix!

Keep in mind the therapist can only go off what your sister tells them. And right now it is probably best she doesn't speak to your folks while she works through the feelings.

You can offer your support to both of them, but try to avoid suggestions or getting them to interact.

And when you get too tired and stressed out about it you're allowed to say so! My sister is doing something similar with my dad (compounded by abuse from her previous home) but I've had to flat out shut down her treating me as a therapist. I'm not qualified and it's my family too, so neither of us deserved to be dragged into a fight).

Good luck anon