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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-05 03:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #3167 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3167 ⌋

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Re: shakes fist

(Anonymous) 2015-09-05 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Ughhhh yeah my sympathies. It should be possible to mildly disagree, and some people are really open to it, but less on the internet with relative strangers, than face to face with someone with an established bond, I think. Some people are really hair-trigger about being what they perceive as being criticised or being called ~wrong, and this semi-BMF sounds ridiculous in their fragile ego, frankly. I think it was reasonable for you to attempt to communicate in that way, and the most interesting discussion in fandom comes from constructively sharing and comparing different perspectives, pity you had to get a condescending lecture/s in response :/

Re: shakes fist

(Anonymous) 2015-09-06 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
Even when I was ending the.....conversation....they were citing page numbers at me in response to why I was wrong lmao sigh. I was definitely hoping for a fun exchange but yeah, got lectured instead. Suuucks.

Re: shakes fist

(Anonymous) 2015-09-06 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
One of the BNFs of my fandom is like this. She'd start a friendly seeming conversation as if she only wanted to discuss this thing you both were interested in. If you agreed with her, you got a gushing BFF lovefest. If you disagreed in any way, holy shit brace yourself for a barrage of courtroom drama where she argues how wrong you are, because [pages of citations and proof that the things you like are WRONG].

Do yourself a favor: AVOID. People who are that pedantic have some psychological need to always be right and always have the last word. It's not personal, but they'll make you miserable with their drama, anyway.