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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-10 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3172 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3172 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Ollie Locke)


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[Forever]


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[Doctor Who]












Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 013 secrets from Secret Submission Post #453.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: TW Death

(Anonymous) 2015-09-11 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
When my father died, I was not there at the moment of his passing. We'd had a minor spat and I just put off talking to him for a month. I ducked his calls. He died of a heart attack walking with my mother and the dogs in the park.

Every day, I thought of it. But I realized that the moment of passing didn't matter, in the long run. We had 20 years of love. We had thousands of moments and the ending one may seem important, but it isn't. I'm sure my Dad died knowing I loved him. The fact that I wasn't there didn't matter. I'm sure your grandmother died knowing that you loved her, no matter what was going on in that very moment.

Forgive yourself. Let yourself grieve, but don't let this sit inside of you and fester, please. You're not a screwup. You're just a person, and people get busy. It doesn't mean you didn't love them.

Re: TW Death

(Anonymous) 2015-09-11 09:08 am (UTC)(link)
this is a good comment