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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-13 03:27 pm

[ SECRET POST #3175 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3175 ⌋

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Re: Tumblr question

(Anonymous) 2015-09-14 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
I think it is polite to unfollow somebody if they ask.

Honestly? Maybe they're being overdramatic, but I can see why people care who follows them. If I have a personal history, or a personal reason to feel uncomfortable with someone (I know you said your interactions were pleasant - but heck, who knows what is going on in their mind), I don't like knowing said person is seeing this thing I do for my own enjoyment; something personal to me.

On a site like tumblr where anyone can see your stuff, privacy doesn't mean much, I know. There are ton of faceless followers I have, who I would probably be uncomfortable with if I knew them better. Still, if I had an open line of communication with them, realized there was a reason I wanted them to unfollow me, I would ask.

Also, a lot of underage bloggers feel uncomfortable with adults following them, too, if age is a factor here. Again, personally I understand at least. (I myself am not comfortable following minors - I don't want to see a 15 year old squeel about their sexual fantasies, no thank you sir).

Re: Tumblr question

(Anonymous) 2015-09-14 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
"Also, a lot of underage bloggers feel uncomfortable with adults following them, too, if age is a factor here."

That's understandable, but it's on them to manage their own privacy settings and anonymity. Deferring that responsibility to... well, ANYONE else is silly. I'm uncomfortable with strangers seeing me naked. That's why I go into a changing room when I try on clothes at the store. What I DON'T do is start stripping off in the middle of the women's section and tell strangers to avert their eyes because I'm uncomfortable with people seeing my naked body.