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⌈ Secret Post #3179 ⌋

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[Rupaul's Drag Race season 7]

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[Supernatural]

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[20th Century Boys]

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[The Mighty Boosh, Noel Fielding]

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Everything you described sounds perfectly normal to me. If your parents are hassling you, you can try putting them off by saying how sorry you feel for his poor family, how it's a bit weird for you that a contemporary is dead, etc. I'd be tempted to be honest about your conflicted feelings and why they're conflicted, though. (Unless your parents are jerks and would react badly.) Basically that:

1) The deceased was really horrible and bullied you throughout school.
2) That maybe he changed/improved but you have no idea and never got to resolve those past issues.
3) That you feel sorry for the pain his family must be feeling.

Acknowledging other peoples' grief at a time like this is an appropriate, kind response. You're not obligated to feel bad for someone you only knew as a bully.

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Re: TW: Bullying and death