[ SECRET POST #3179 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3179 ⌋

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[Rupaul's Drag Race season 7]


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[20th Century Boys]


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[The Mighty Boosh, Noel Fielding]


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Comments

Re: Why

[(Anonymous)]

That would make me a little sad, too. Do you invite them to do things much, though? It'd help you all get to know one another better and signal that you're open to social stuff.

OP

[(Anonymous)]

I brought it up above but I can't drive and neither of them enjoy walking places, so inviting them out would always seem more like "hey can you drive me to this place" than really inviting them to go somewhere with me, and I don't like to ask them to drive me around unless I really need to.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

Da

How about a movie night and order pizzas? No walking involved. :)

Sorry you're feeling this way though, anon. I understand totally. *hugs*

OP

[(Anonymous)]

We've done stuff like that before, like we've played video games together and I've cooked for them and stuff like that, but they keep just kind of not including me when they go out and telling me when they leave. They aren't super unfriendly to me or seem to particularly dislike me exactly, but they don't seem to particularly like me either, and its weirdly hard for me since I haven't managed to make any friends since I moved here for college (which was a few years ago which is super pathetic). I figure I should just be happy they don't hate me cause I know people can have way worse roommate situations, I just do get sad when they don't include me. I don't know.

Thank you though.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

Socializing at home sounds like a good idea, then. I think this is one of those things where friendliness and openness can go a long way-- basically, include them the way you'd like to be included, even if it's "Hey guys, I was thinking about ordering out Chinese and watching Guardians of the Galaxy, do you want in?"

Some people just don't click as friends. Acquaintances, yes, roommates, yes, but not friends. I don't know what the issue is with you and your roommates, but if you're really concerned it might help to examine your own behavior and see if anything's amiss that would alienate people. That sounds terrible, and I'm sorry, but if you're up for it, it's worth at least a brief assessment.