[ SECRET POST #3179 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3179 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Rupaul's Drag Race season 7]


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[Supernatural]


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[20th Century Boys]


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[The Mighty Boosh, Noel Fielding]


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Comments

Re: TW: Bullying and death

[(Anonymous)]

You feel how you want to feel. I don't think feelings can really be controlled, especially not with things like this.

And the fact that you do feel bad for not really being sad over his death-well, if you didn't care at all, I don't think you'd feel any guilt or weirdness to begin with, so maybe you could take some comfort in that fact, knowing that you do have feelings about it, even if they are complicated ones?

And I don't blame you at all for wishing you'd had a chance to sort out the issues you had with the guy-that's a very typical regret after a death, whether you liked the person who died or not. Everyone eventually gets to thinking about the things they wish they'd said or done with/to the person who died. And in this case, it sounds like that could've helped you move on and maybe even helped the bully see the error of his ways. I'm sorry you never got the chance to do that.

If you want to help yourself sort out these feelings, though, I think talking about them with trusted people is the best way to go. Or maybe writing them out somewhere could help. Maybe write out all the things you wanted to say to this bully (if you haven't done so already) to help get it all off your chest.

And since you said you feel bad for his parents, a small gesture to them of some kind-a card or something-could help, too (if you want to do something like that, of course).

But yeah. You've every right to the feelings you have. Do whatever helps you work through them.