case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-17 06:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #3179 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3179 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.
[Rupaul's Drag Race season 7]


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.
[Supernatural]


__________________________________________________



06.
[20th Century Boys]


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10.
[The Mighty Boosh, Noel Fielding]


__________________________________________________



11.


__________________________________________________



12.


__________________________________________________



13.









Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 014 secrets from Secret Submission Post #454.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
caerbannog: (Default)

Re: Why

[personal profile] caerbannog 2015-09-18 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
They might think you're not interested... But also inviting yourself along to things generally isn't cool (once in a blue moon is okay)

I would suggest taking the initiative: invite them to things rather than waiting for them to invite you. Perhaps suggest meeting them somewhere - you can walk there earlier and they'll catch up with you etc. Don't go crazy on the inviting, but maybe once a fortnight invite out to things. And maybe put a movie on In your lounge and when one walks past invite them to watch with you.

Chances are they've noticed you're sad and are "giving you space" or don't really know what to do. Which is fine, it's not their job to fix you, but it can be unintentionally hurtful.