[ SECRET POST #3179 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3179 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Rupaul's Drag Race season 7]


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[Supernatural]


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[20th Century Boys]


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[The Mighty Boosh, Noel Fielding]


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Comments

Re: TW: Bullying and death

[(Anonymous)]

Your parents can expect whatever they want, they can't force you to feel what you don't feel.

You feel bad for his parents. That's what you feel, and that's good enough. You haven't seen him since high school. You don't owe the little shit--rest his soul--anything else.

Your sense of loss at not having an apology/confrontation is on you though. Not trying to be mean, but if you haven't talked to him in years, how does that change things? Judging from what you've said about him, he wasn't about to apologize to you before. So...why is it different now?

Of course, you're allowed to feel that loss. It sucks when someone never acknowledges the hell they put you through, no matter who they are. I don't think there is a "should or shouldn't feel" about it here. What do you WANT to feel? Do you want to be sad like your parents think you should? Do you want to stick to feeling sad for his parents? Do you want to wallow in the misery of the old memories? Do you want to mentally curse the dead guy in the afterlife for the bad things he did to you? Do you want to put away these bad episodes and let go of the wish that he'll realize what a jerk he was and give you a genuine apology?

I think it's just something you have to figure out, and not something people can tell you. Maybe this "loss" IS your grief, something you have to work through. But only you can say for sure.