[ SECRET POST #3179 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3179 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Rupaul's Drag Race season 7]


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[Supernatural]


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[20th Century Boys]


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[The Mighty Boosh, Noel Fielding]


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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 014 secrets from Secret Submission Post #454.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

Re: TW: Bullying and death

[(Anonymous)]

There's no exact way you should be feeling, though feeling bad for the people who loved the person that died is always appropriate.

seem to be expecting me to feel more sad that someone I knew died. And I'm just not feeling it. Even the death of someone you liked but didn't know well wouldn't necessarily engender great sadness.

It's normal to want acknowledgement of someone's bad treatment of you, weirdly, it can sometimes help you put it behind you more easily.

Guilt, shock, sadness, fear, facing your own mortality, anger, and numbness are all normal. And even happiness (as in the case of someone no longer being in great pain) or relief can be too. Just one of them, or all of them, or some of them, or different ones as you process it, or even all of them at the same time can happen. Everybody deals with death differently. You don't have to go through the five stages of grief (those stages are actually about how people who are terminal react to being terminal).