[ SECRET POST #3190 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3190 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Angry Birds (Movie)]


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03.
[The Great British Bake Off (series 6)]


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04.
[Jennifer Nettles, Ronnie Dunn]


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05.
[Free!]


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06.
[Hannibal]


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07.
[Jennifer Lien, who played Kes in Star Trek: Voyager]


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08.
[BBC Robin Hood]


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(Ancillary Justice by Ann Leckie/The Mirror Empire by Kameron Hurley)












Notes:

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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom]

05. http://i.imgur.com/3aps0ki.jpg
[Free!]

[(Anonymous)]

Is this what OCD does to a person? Because I'm like that (spending too much time worrying about being good, feeling responsible for things I'm not responsible for, worrying far too much, struggling just to be at all normal). D:

[diet_poison]

I always thought it was more about obsessing over details and having little rituals without which you would feel like you were doing something wrong and/or something horrible would happen.

I mean, maybe it's a wider scope than that. I had a...state of being?...when I was a teen that I think may well have developed into full-blown OCD had I not recognized and actively combated it, but I've never actually had the disorder.

OP

[(Anonymous)]

In order to qualify for a diagnosis of OCD, you can have either obsessions (not necessarily focusing on details, as such -- just unwanted mental fixations, such as being terrified of carrying some horrible disease without knowing, for instance) or compulsions (the rituals you described) or both. I have both.

My OCD was definitely worse upon its onset when I was about eleven years old than it is now, but it fluctuates quite a lot -- which is not to scare you! Sometimes people do really just have a rough time of things in terms of mental health without its being tied to a particular disorder.

Re: OP

[diet_poison]

ah, thanks for the clarification, OP!

Re: OP

[riotgrrrl]

Isn't being scared of a horrible disease a disorder in itself, such as hypochondria or illness anxiety disorder? I'm only asking because I just last week had my introduction meeting with a therapist specifically for this kind of thing, and I always considered it to be the illness anxiety disorder that was bothering me (which is making me obsessed about that particular thing), but an 'unwanted mental fixation' definitely sounds right as well.

OP here [cw for brain problems]

[(Anonymous)]

Well, if it helps to describe my own experience a little more, I would be glad to, anon.

I have both OCD and GAD, and it is not always clear where one ends and the other begins... but one of my biggest and worst symptoms is fixating on (which is the phrase I wish I had used in the secret instead of "worrying about", actually) my perceived moral purity or lack thereof. If I even VERY SLIGHTLY wrong someone, or think I have wronged them, I spiral into "I am cruel, I am thoughtless, I am poison, I am wretched, I should be punished" very readily, and it can last for hours, if not days or even weeks, feeling diseased and rotten and afraid of myself. Unfortunately, I am also prone to intrusive thoughts that mainly revolve around either deliberately or accidentally harming innocent beings, and those two symptoms do not mix well.

Thankfully, I have just begun a new medication and will be going to therapy on a regular basis, so I am optimistic about getting some peace -- and if your worry rules your life, anon, then whether it springs from OCD or not, you deserve to have a peaceful life and brain too. Please do talk to your doctor if you can!

Re: OP here [cw for brain problems]

[diet_poison]

I'm happy for you that you're trying the new meds/therapy, and I really hope they work for you! <3

[elaminator]

...I've never given much thought to it, but I can see where you're coming from. I don't think that interpretation is entirely OOC; he IS very nurturing and I can see how worry or OCD could play into that.

Anyway, there's nothing wrong with you having a head-canon. If it helps you feel better about yourself that's great. (And I hope things work out for you!)

[wannabe_influential]

As someone with OCD tendencies and a big fan of Makoto, I approve of this headcanon :)

[(Anonymous)]

Hm, but Makoto seems pretty okay with prioritizing important activities over his friendships, like how he suggested to Iwatobi that they focus on their races after Rin's breakdown during his race in the final episode of Season 1.

Then again, THAT felt OOC to me (Makoto in all other instances has seemed like the kind of person who would try to prioritize his friends' well being over superficial things like a sports competition), so I'm divided.

[sachiko_san]

idc, just keep your headcanon to yourself because i don't care how you want to characterize them as because it's probably not even canon in any way, shape, or form and god forbid a male be nurturing in nature without there being something wrong with him. also he does not come off that way at all and this sounds more like projecting, considering that's what it seems all headcanons are, projecting.

[(Anonymous)]

Wow, that's a little harsh! I'm pretty neurotypical and one of the things I enjoyed most about Gay Swimswam was how the cast really seemed not to be. In the second series it definitely came off as intentional. I started to think about it a lot, and highly recommended the show to a friend who isn't really into anime. I wanted him to see Haru struggle with (blatant) depression and anxiety and come out on top. My agender girlfriend identifies strongly with Rin, whose dress sense, motivations, movements and emotions seem to put him right down the middle, genderwise. I strongly sympathise with Nagisa, who doesn't fit in and plays it off as being ~sooooo funloving~ but is probably a bit insecure with all that? Like, he's genuinely like that, but he's not sure how and when to tone it down? I love that. I think IRL he'd be very likely to be taking ADHD meds. Rei is just. blatantly. BLATANTLY on the autistic spectrum. That's what's so fun and loveable about him! His very mild dysfunction, his slight failures to recognise other people's motivation, despite really clearly caring a lot? Like how he manages to get poached onto a swimming team WITHOUT EVER MENTIONING THAT HE CAN'T SWIM. God I love Rei.

So anyway, I felt too close to or sympathetic towards Mako to be able to put my finger on anything that might be unusual about the way he thinks. I certainly think PTSD fits very strongly, and I very much like your feelings about OCD, OP - I don't have much personal experience with the disorder, so I wouldn't have guessed, but I like it a lot! And I absolutely think the neurodiversity of the show was intentional.

[(Anonymous)]

I love how this comment pretends that in a Japanese series created for an specific niche (a not-small niche, but niche anyway) characters aren't given quirks for the sake of making them amusing or lovable for the audience, but it's done with an ample awareness of mental issues.

But I guess that would get in the way of projecting and seeing what you want to see.