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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-18 04:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #3210 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3210 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-18 09:19 pm (UTC)(link)
More stupid than regular dating sites, where the basis of compatibility is usually how hot you think someone is?

(Anonymous) 2015-10-18 09:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Both is stupid. In both cases you burden the other person with too much expectations.

But to be fair, this is not only a problem of dating sites but a problem of how relationsships in general work today. It's not enough to just have a girlfriend/boyfriend. Your significant other also has to be your best friend, your at all times to be available sexmate and a human version of xanax -> making sure that you're feeling good and entertained all the time and to never burden you with any kind of negativity.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
Physical attraction is important. It's not the only important thing and static pictures on a computer screen aren't always a good way to see what someone looks like (says someone who oes NOT photograph well) but it can't be dismissed as shallow and insignificant.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
Agreed! It's not that people necessarily all look for the "hottest" person, either, but you need to feel some kind of attraction for the person you're going to enter into a romantic relationship with.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-21 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
Uhh most dating sites have compatibility algorithms. Have you actually been on like... OKCupid? It's based on your answers to 100s of different questions.