[ SECRET POST #3215 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3215 ⌋

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[Disney's Descendants]


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04. [SPOILERS for Undertale]



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05. [SPOILERS for Ancillary Mercy]



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06. [SPOILERS for Great British Bake Off, series 6]



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07. [SPOILERS for Defiance]



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08. [SPOILERS for shepherd's crown]



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09. [WARNING for abuse]














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Comments

Re: Ask an opinion question

[(Anonymous)]

Kids don't have to like doing chores. But they do have to do them. Like eating vegetables or going to bed at a reasonable time. It's best to teach kids to suck it up and do it if it's good for you.

Personal anecdotes really are unimportant when the research goes 100% against spanking. And it is literally hitting your kid, so I'm not sure why you are dividing here.

Re: Ask an opinion question

[kitelovesyou]

Well said.

My oldest is only two so not a huge amount of experience with discipline yet, but I do have to do it constantly. Sometimes it is REALLY HARD for me not to get angry and want to be forceful. Instead, I work on trying to collaborate with him and try to avoid escalating the situation. Sounds hippy but it works most of the time. The more cross I get and the more I tell him off, the more defiant and unwilling he gets, whereas if I pick my battles, consider compromise, try to explain why something is a bad idea, and offer alternatives, he's much better behaved. I know if I hit him, our covenant would be broken and he'd act the hell up out of anger himself, for a long time. I punish with time outs, making him apologise, and trying to mend the consequences of his actions.

My parents hit me. It was bad.