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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-27 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #3219 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3219 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[Suicide Squad]


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02.
[Dragonlance Legends]


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03.
[Takehiko Inoue's "Real"]


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04.
[Avatar the Last Airbender/Legend of Korra]


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05.
[Dean Martin and Jerry Lewis]


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06.
[The Twelve Kingdoms]


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07.
[Dramatical Murder]


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08.
[Hemlock Grove, Bill Skarsgard]


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09.
[Marvel's Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D]


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10.
[Psycho]


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11.
[Outlander series, Dougal/Claire]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 042 secrets from Secret Submission Post #460.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
kallanda_lee: (Default)

Re: suicide tw

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2015-10-28 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
Hypothetically I do not believe that person is a horrible person.

Because if the were horrible they wouldn't have tried pretty much everything to better themselves.

Re: suicide tw

(Anonymous) 2015-10-28 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
does it matter though? It doesn't matter how much I try to better myself. The thing is that I don't have the ability to do it. Intentions don't matter. Actions do. Is a domestic abuser less of an abuser just because they try very hard not to be one when they're still hurting their family?
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: suicide tw

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-10-28 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
How do you hit people without meaning to? That's too clear-cut for me.

Emotional abuse is more difficult. I would know. I have done it. It takes work but you CAN stop behaving that way. You have to be really aware of what you're doing and how it's affecting others. Dissect it if you have to (with help from a professional if possible). It's possible to figure out what you're doing that is hurting others and choose to stop it, even if it seems daunting.
kallanda_lee: (goggles barnes)

Re: suicide tw

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2015-10-28 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
Well, are you a domestic abuser, though?

Look, here's the thing: the majority of people are actually decent people. They won't change the world for good, but they also don't make it worse.

So statistically, chances are you're one of those.

Now the fact you tried to change does tell me you're a decent person. The fact your failing tells me there is probably a factor that is preventing you from succeeding, my guess would be a mental illness.

And putting those two together -I'm sorry to say - unfortunately makes you a terrible judge as to if suicide is a good idea.

You are not a bad person because your mental illness or your personal problems inconvenience other people. Especially not if those people include our parents, because having a kid always holds the risk of having one with problems. You have just as much right to be on this planet as anyone else.