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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-28 05:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #3220 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3220 ⌋

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blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

Re: How do I stop hating myself?

[personal profile] blitzwing 2015-10-28 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Are you familiar with the concept of cognitive distortions? For some people, it helps to familiarize themselves with all the distortions, and call themselves out when they recognize themselves using one.

For example, if you catch yourself thinking, "I'm worthless, I couldn't even pass one test." (Cognitive distortion: black and white thinking) you might counter that with "That's ridiculous. Lot's of people can't pass the bar on the first try. A person's worth isn't defined by one event in their life."

Some people make a list of them and then counter them.