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[ SECRET POST #3224 ]

⌈ Secret Post #3224 ⌋

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I know you intensely distrust psychiatrists but you DO need help so pull yourself together and go ask for it. They're not ALL quacks. Some CAN and WILL help you.

Honestly, I don't know. No advice I could possibly give would've improved my situation five years ago. I would've been just as royally messed up.

Just do it. It will be so much harder later.

Appreciate her, because she'll be gone in 3 years.

Don't get involved with him.

Trust yourself for once.

Pick a damn career already.

Go to college in OK and pick a different major.

Spend more time with your best friend. You're not going to have time later and if you don't remind her how much you love her, she's going to leave you.

Yes, you are attracted to women too. Stop pushing it away or denying it to yourself. It is only going to make things harder. You've already worked through accepting that it is okay for girls to have a sexuality at all. You can work through this too. It is only going to get harder the more you deny it.

Quit computing, get into horticulture.

There is no correct timeline that you're supposed to live your life according to. You're not behind other people, just going a different way, and there's nothing wrong with that.

Re: What advice would you give yourself 5 years ago?

(Anonymous) - 2015-11-01 20:17 (UTC) - Expand

fucking hurry up and get things done faster so future you isn't still dealing with your procrastination

Start taking SSRIs.

Also, ask J____ out. But mostly the bit about SSRIs.

Save more money, stop buying so much stuff.

Enjoy your life as it is and don't worry about the people who don't bother to contact you, it's not worth it.

Keep smiling more and don't ever lose that.

Drop that bitch now.

You can and should drop out of college. No shame in it. There are other options!

Do it. It doesn't get better, so just go on and damn well do it while you have the right pills.

Re: What advice would you give yourself 5 years ago?

(Anonymous) - 2015-11-01 21:18 (UTC) - Expand

Re: What advice would you give yourself 5 years ago?

caerbannog - 2015-11-01 22:16 (UTC) - Expand

Re: What advice would you give yourself 5 years ago?

dreemyweird - 2015-11-01 23:03 (UTC) - Expand

Just let it go. It's not worth it.

Keep on keepin' on. Things are going to work out just fine.

Oh darling, enjoy senior year of college and don't stress about jobs after graduation because 1) it's the Great Recession and there's nothing more you can do than what you're doing already and 2) it'll all work out in the end.

(Also, maybe non-judgementally voice your suspicions to L. about her new boyfriend - your bad feeling about him is dead on.)

Get over your butthurt and go talk to ex-BFF and become BFFs again, then you won't be agonizing over not introducing new friend with BFF in a few years also adventures.

LET GO OF THE LEASH. Yes you may be trying to keep the dog from running off and get her back in the house, but she's prolly gonna sniff that other dog and not go far anyway, so do it so your finger doesn't break and is set crooked.

Your mom is going to die next year, so spend all the time you can with her. And whenever she asks you if you miss her, say yes.

Ditch that "friend". Listen to your other friends and ditch that friend NOW. Don't wait 3 more years, get rid of them. They're hamstringing you. Go find new friends. Those new people you just met? Actually pretty cool if weird. Go be friends with them. More will come.

Write more. Write every day. And for god's sakes, take as many math classes as you need 'cause it's really embarrassing when kids ask you for help with their homework and you have to Google how to multiple fractions.