[ SECRET POST #3227 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3227 ⌋

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[Mary McDonnell, Battlestar Galactica, Major Crimes]


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[Deadly Premonition]


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[The Walking Dead, Glenn Rhee]


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[Bill Skarsgård]


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08. http://i.imgur.com/LAq54d4.jpg
[link for random penis]









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Comments

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

So you've seriously never talked to someone and thought to yourself "man this person is super awkward" or "holy shit this is the worst small talk how do I get out of this" or anything like that?

Not saying that OP isn't just hyping it up due to anxiety, but the whole "people don't notice!" is just bullshit.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

Occasionally but it's not something I really think a lot about.

I guess what I mean is that most people probably don't care a lot about it I think. Or at least aren't seriously judging in the way that OP seems to think.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[herpymcderp]

Yeah, sure. Let's say you notice it that's a small enough percent. But the percentage of times you would notice that and actually give a shit about it? That's like ... one in several thousand interactions.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

It's still tremendously self-important to think that it matters.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

You don't get anxiety, do you?

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

I have anxiety, you dipshit.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

Well not everybody has anxiety in the same way.

Some people have anxiety about people around them judging them, some people have anxiety about what horrible germs they might have, some people have anxiety about other things.

It's pretty shitty to tell someone that they're self absorbed because they have a different kind of worry then you, or they care about something you find silly.

You're still being a jerk.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

Tell that to my anxiety. Maybe it will listen to someone else.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

It's not your anxiety that won't listen; it's your amour-propre.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

or you're just a narrow minded asshole who can't understand anything you think is dumb.

Some people are self-conscious and worry that people may judge them. Maybe they have encountered people who judge them and laugh at things they do.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

I understand just fine; I just don't agree with you.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

Well nobody needs you coming up going "oh you're worried about this because you're full of yourself"

You're opinion is unwanted.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

Evidently, but in that case, I don't think you have any room to call other people narrow-minded.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

The point is you're being a dick.

Also you sure are one to talk about being self important when you think your opinion of OP's fears is so necessary. Is it accomplishing anything?

No.

Is it going to help anyone?

Not really.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

Well, clearly you don't want to hear it, but who are you to decide that it can't accomplish anything or help anyone? Or do you magically know what everyone with anxiety thinks?

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

You absolute fucktard. It doesn't take magic to figure out that telling someone that "oh it's not really your anxiety its your ego" is actually helpful and will accomplish anything.

Pull your head out of your ass.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

I don't see an argument here: just you stomping your foot while sticking your fingers in your ears and yelling NO NO NO NO!

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

Fuck off you smug pseudo-intellectual.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

Fuck off yourself, misery maven.

Angry anon here

[(Anonymous)]

I apologize.

A good while away from the computer has given me time to realize what an absolute and total asshole I was being.

I am not the OP but I've had similar problems/feelings and I took offense, and in the heat of anger, acted like a complete and utter idiot and said a bunch of things.

I really should have stepped away from the computer at that point. Anger makes you stupid I guess.

I disagree on whether the comment was helpful, but hey agree to disagree.

So ....I apologize.

Re: Angry anon here

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, it's easy to get catch in the moment and say things you don't mean.

But take more to apologize, especially when you're anon and you won't save face if you do.

So yeah, apology accepted.

Just remember to take a break when you're starting to get heated, cause everyone says things they'll regret when they're super ticked.

Re: Angry anon here

[(Anonymous)]

*takes

don't take much to typo tho

Re: Angry anon here

[(Anonymous)]

**it takes

OTL

Re: Angry anon here

[(Anonymous)]

IDK if you will see this, but I am the anon you replied to. What I posted has actually been useful to me in my struggles with anxiety, but I certainly expressed in a thoughtlessly dogmatic, unkind way here. I'm sorry to have distressed you.

Re: Lies you tell yourself...

[(Anonymous)]

Fuck off you're not helping anyone.