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He came down with pneumonia while he was in the long-term care hospital (which is a shithole and I blame them for this) and nobody noticed until it got worse while he was in the nursing home. They took him to another hospital but it looks like his body's just giving up. All the machines are gone and all he's got left is a ventilator. We're waiting on him to make a decision, but it won't be long now.

I feel like a robot. All my emotional responses are cranked down. All I can do is type the F word a lot on the internet. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck.

I'm so sorry, man. That's terrible.

Jfc. There are no words. We are waiting with you.

I'm so sorry. That's awful

Lots of internet hugs offered.

That's horrible. I don't know what to say, except hang in there.

I'm so sorry :(

Went through a similar deal with my mom a year ago. I'm sorry. :( Swear all you want, dude.

I'm so sorry.

Hugs if wanted. I'm sorry.

I felt really numb too, the first time someone I knew well died. It was a few days after and it was really triggered by a celebrity death.

Different people respond in different ways.

Re: So my dad's on the way out

(Anonymous) - 2015-11-06 23:07 (UTC) - Expand

Re: So my dad's on the way out

(Anonymous) - 2015-11-07 03:00 (UTC) - Expand

I'm so sorry. I have no other words but know that an anon on the internet is thinking of you and sending out positive thoughts your way.

I'm so, so sorry. That's horrible. I wish I could hug you right now.

I'm sorry.

I'm sorry. My thoughts are with you and you family. Take care of yourself.

I'm so sorry. I'm thinking of you.

I'm so sorry.

Sorry dude.

Sorry :(

I'm sorry, I really am. Been there. It doesn't really help much right now, I know, but I think every single person that's typed their sympathies means it.

The robot phase is normal. It's coping, it's getting through one moment to get to the next. When the next phase hits, you're probably going to feel a whole lot at once and it's going to be a complete shitstorm in your brain. It's okay to ride it, even if people get freaked out because you're having emotions at them. They're your emotions, have them.

I'm really sorry.

Fuck. That's, well, that's really awful. I'm sorry.

I'm so sorry. :(

Been through almost the exactly the same situation, only that it was my grandfather instead. It sucks.

I'm so sorry, and my thoughts are with you.

<3

*hugs*

*hugs*
I'm so very, very sorry. It sucks to just *wait*.... But at least he'll know you're there and with him.

Well fuck. That really fucking sucks.

We went through something similar in terms of care situation. My pop was sent back to the nursing home with a post-op infection and didn't receive the care he needed. It's really unfair and upsetting to think that something more could have been done when it mattered, but the person I love wasn't a priority to the people who made that decision.

Hugs if wanted.

So sorry to hear about your dad. Take care of yourself.