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⌈ Secret Post #3239 ⌋

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[Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani]

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[Unforgotten, The Fall]

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[Gamer's Guide to Pretty Much Everything]

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[Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani]

Eh, I honestly don't care about her love life.

Though I do sort of resent the notion that cheating *must*have been going on if someone dates soon after a breakup.Obviously I don't know what happened there, but some people actually break up first,or date again soon as a coping mechanism/living is the best revenge etc.

This. She could have, idk, but just because she's dating soon after a divorce doesn't make her a cheater. That's quite the leap, imo.

I don't know about either relationship but it's totally possible that she and her ex-husband had been on the outs for a long time and she's already over him and feels like moving on. (And hey, good for her.)

It's one of my pet peeves because I hooked up with my current bf very soon after m previous relationship ended. There are still people who assume I cheated, evn though Im the one who got dumped.

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elialshadowpine - 2015-11-18 10:20 (UTC) - Expand

IA. Don't know anything about this case in particular, but you make a very good overall point.

Yeah, I started dating my now-husband after ending an 8-year on-again-off-again relationship for good, and there was no cheating on my part. On my ex's part, that's a different story.

I'm not saying that there wasn't a whole lot of sexual tension between us, but nothing happened before the previous relationship ended.

i'm guessing this secret was made before news of gavin allegedly fucking the nanny broke.

Just came to say as much. Because from what I've heard, he was cheating with the nanny for years. Whoops, OP.

It's always the Nanny/Poolboy in these breakups.

Even if she was cheating too, which would raise all sorts of questions about what drover her to that, but even if she was cheating it was his infidelity that was the deal-breaker, it was his infidelity that ended the marriage, and it is right that he is the one facing the public outcry.

TLDR: Stop trying to shame a woman for getting a pretty new fuckboy after what was obviously an unhappy marriage.

How do you know he didn't have an affair because she caused an unhappy marriage? Oh, you don't.

Dude, that's still a lousy excuse for an affair though. You can leave if you're unhappy, you know.

Even if she did cheat on him or whatever to 'cause an unhappy marriage', that would be no excuse for him to cheat too

Nobody "drives" anyone to cheating. You cheat or you don't. If you are unhappy in your relationship, you fix it or end it. It's still your fault if you choose to cheat.

lots of times the marriage is over a while before the divorce.

This. Marriage is such a cheap word these days. Considering the high divorce rate and people who remain in unhappy relationships for other reasons, I don't think being married holds that much meaning.

This makes me really sad :(

Not just that you're saying it, but that a) I think a lot of people agree and b) I think there's a lot of truth to it for a lot of people.

I kind of wish people wouldn't get married unless they really truly meant it. And I wish more people realized what marriage really means. It takes work and it's not always a fairytale.

This. My ex-partner and I had been effectively housemates who had sex once in awhile for about three years before I said, enough is enough. There were some bumps for a bit, but overall it's been an amicable divorce. Well, technically we still need to start the process but we're both broke and getting through to the local pro bono lawyers is a pain in the ass as they only take phone calls for about two hours a couple days a week. Bah. But that's just legalities.

... it also helps that we were poly so my relationship with my now-husband (by handfasting, which to me is more important spiritually and between each other than legalities; what matters is the oaths and vows we make to each other, not whether the IRS considers us married) had started before my ex and I broke up, and it was not an issue in the slightest.

I can't stand her in general.

She should have jumped ship the first time trouble with him happened all the way back in... 2001? She even wrote a few songs surrounding their breakup back then.

9/10

Oooh, you're a GOOD one, aren't you!

And no commentary on how recently HIS marriage ended in divorce? Double standard much?

Or maybe they're focused on Gwen Stefani because she's more famous than Blake Shelton. I had no idea who he was and had to Google him.

He's on The Voice and a popular country singer who was recently divorced from another popular country singer. I know nothing of country music but I'd say he's been more in the spotlight then Gwen.

I can't remember Gwen being relevant since 2005 despite that being more my music tastes.

Because rumor is Miranda cheated on him with a couple of other country singers (Luke Bryan and Chris Young IIRC)

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