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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-22 03:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #3245 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3245 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-11-22 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
On one hand, yeah, this person should stop being a hypocrite about YKINMK.

On the other hand, lumping BDSM in with gore and shota as kinks for people who enjoy "harming others" is questionable at best.

(Anonymous) 2015-11-22 09:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Plus you can easily flip the question around: would you be more skeeved out by someone who wants you to spank them or someone who wants to shit in your mouth?

The person OP is talking about sounds like a hypocrite but OP isn't doing a very good job of arguing why they shouldn't be, and calling them creepy in the exact opposite way instead.

(Anonymous) 2015-11-22 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I would guess because real life BDSM and written BDSM have to have about as much in common as... well.. romance novel sex and real sex? A lot of the BDSM erotica can go well beyond what ordinary humans could possibly enjoy, or just doesn't have the big disclaimer of "this is ALL PRETEND!"

Like having a story with a college student actually getting called into a professor's office for spanking and forced blowjob, not "GARY and JANE, TWO middle aged CONSENTING ADULTS are going to PRETEND that Jane is a college student and Gary is a college professor and they're going to CONSENT to play a scene where he spanks her! For pretend! Not actual skeezy abuse of power! PRETEND! It's a BDSM SCENE!"

I mean fics of 'these characters are into BDSM and do it somewhat realistically' do exist, but they're not the only ones in the genre.