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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-22 03:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #3245 ]


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(Anonymous) 2015-11-22 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
"and how the fuck do you forget you kid? No fucking way."

I can't believe people keep saying this. Like, have you never seen those stories in the news about kids dying because they get left in the car?
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2015-11-22 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Personally, I don't think those kids were 'forgotten', I think the parents didn't give a fuck and/or thought they'd be in the store for 'one minute' and then fucked around. I think they were idiots, but i really don't think you can go to the airport with six tickets and get on the plane with five people (or however many was in the movie) and not *notice* until you're 5000 feet in the air.

(Anonymous) 2015-11-22 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
You are a fucking piece of shit.

I hope someday you forget your kid somewhere and they die, and then you get to live with people telling you you must not have given a fuck and couldn't possibly have loved them.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2015-11-22 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, please fuck right off.

(Anonymous) 2015-11-22 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Not until something bad happens and you're grieving and feeling guilty and someone says you must have done it on purpose or because you didn't care enough.

(Anonymous) 2015-11-23 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
Dude wtf.

(Anonymous) 2015-11-23 08:25 pm (UTC)(link)
DA *excuse me*? What are you ON that you think this is halfway acceptable?

(Anonymous) 2015-11-22 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey now, forgotten baby syndrome is an actual thing. Calm down will you.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2015-11-22 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
? I'm perfectly calm.

(Anonymous) 2015-11-22 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe, but you're making a lot of very poor assumptions about people, and in a not very nice way.

It's horrible to think someone who cares about their kids could forget them, but it happens. Cognitive malfunction causes it, not a lack of caring.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2015-11-22 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
And it being a 'syndrome' is something i've never heard of. Apologies if my knee-jerk reaction to 'i forgot my kid' is 'not nice'.

Edit - 'that', not 'if'.
Edited 2015-11-22 23:30 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2015-11-22 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
The reason you got told to calm down is because everything you say comes across as angry and hostile. The tone of your posts including this one is FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU.

(Anonymous) 2015-11-23 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
Ayrt

You're really not coming across as calm!
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2015-11-23 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
I guess that's too bad? I'm not cussing or raving or calling names, just stating my opinion.
*shrug*

(Anonymous) 2015-11-23 09:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Uh staring it's your opinion doesn't magically erase the language you are using and you'll be called out on it. Not all aggression is cussing, you have been quite rude and venement in calling things fake, unintelligent, stupid, unrealistic - to pick a few words.

So yes, as I and others have stated. You are coming across as very aggressive and rude, so it's not a huge surprise you're being regarded with distaste.

Just an opinion based on observations of your posts.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2015-11-23 02:10 am (UTC)(link)
Two decades ago, this was relatively rare. But in the early 1990s, car-safety experts declared that passenger-side front airbags could kill children, and they recommended that child seats be moved to the back of the car; then, for even more safety for the very young, that the baby seats be pivoted to face the rear.

How extremely weird. People have had occasion to put kids in cars in 'invisible' places *before* this...and under stress and/or in a hurry/distraught/etc. I find it very strange that this simple pair of events would make *that* big of a difference.

Very interesting article, thanks for the link. And yes, my comment(s?) previous were too knee-jerk and harsh, it's true.

The entire article rather makes the movies even *more* stupid and gross, since real life 'forgetting' of kids rarely has a happy ending.

(Anonymous) 2015-11-22 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
But forgetting a kid in the car because you aren't generally the one to drive them to daycare or because they are an infant and turned around and sick so they don't make a noise and you are distracted or any of a number of things that happen when parents tragically forget their kids in the car are vastly different than forgetting a kid at home when you go on vacation. I could buy that they made it to the airport without Kevin, given all of the circumstances surrounding the event, but I can't buy getting on the plane and going to Paris without him.

Not that it really matters, as it is a comedy, and implausible/impossible things happen all of the time in comedy, but I think there very much is a difference, and I have no idea how a family would forget a kid like in the first movie.