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IDK admit stuff that you've been holding inside for a while . Go ahead.

....Oh well this is embarrassing.

No worries! Great minds think alike!

(Not rant thread anon, just saying.)

Doesn't bother me. Rant and get of chest can mean different things. We probably posted at the same time.

I think Sebastian Stan is a very good actor and he's incredibly nice and he's done a lovely job as Bucky Barnes and what I will type next will not be something I ever say to him or anywhere else.

I think he looks like mashed potatoes wearing a wig. This is Mean and Not Good of me, but *man*, his looks are lost on me.

I think this is a bit harsh, but I don't personally find him attractive. At least not his face. His hair in Winter Soldier makes him a bit attractive. But mostly he just does nothing for me.

ayrt

It is harsh, but I wanted to offload it in the meanest way to just get it off of me and then be more reasonable. He has, to be more fair and less descriptive, a VERY square face, which is usually pretty lost on me.

But he was great in Winter Soldier, and I liked him in The Martian, too.

For me he has a face that needs the long hair. Even then, he was just okay. Steve was hotter even though I usually go for longer haired dudes. Stan is nice from behind, though. It really is just his face that doesn't work for me.

I think he's gorgeous, but there's plenty of guys the media presents as "hot" that I'm totally indifferent to,so...eh, tastes,colors and all that?

Exactly. This is strictly an off the chest thing.

I've liked some pretty questionable looking dudes in the past, so it evens out.

I laughed so hard, nonnie, God bless you.

I was coming here to say that exact same thing. :D

Every time I hear someone who's not famous or who probably hasn't done anything of note is writing their autobiography, I wonder why they'd bother.

Maybe because you don't think they've done something of note doesn't mean they haven't done anything of note.

Also people write memoirs which are basically the same thing all the time.

Well okay, I'll give it a go... *crackles knuckles*

Today, I got up and never changed out of my pajamas. I ate leftover pizza for lunch, then went outside and stared at the sky for a bit and then came back inside and had a bowl of cereal. In a few more hours I'll go back to bed and probably do the same thing tomorrow. In the meantime, I'm sitting here, wishing I had some cake but there is no cake in the house.

If any literary agents are reading, leave a comment with your contact info!

Oh yes. Clearly people who aren't famous for something or in the news must have done nothing of importance.

DA. What would you consider "something of importance"?

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(Anonymous) - 2015-11-24 01:33 (UTC) - Expand

Uh, it was a joke making fun of myself for having no life. People can write whatever they want.

da

But that's not what you do every single day of your entire life.

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(Anonymous) - 2015-11-24 05:50 (UTC) - Expand

Okay, but not everyone who isn't famous has a *boring* life.

My granddad (who I sadly never knew) fought in a war, then designed bridges in Asia and then remarried and moved to South America - regardless of blood ties, I'd read the shit out of that.

There's people who were journalists, or worked for doctors without borders, or who were part of civil rights movements, etc etc. who were not famous but had wildly interesting lives.

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(Anonymous) - 2015-11-24 07:31 (UTC) - Expand

there's someone in a minor fandom of mine that's been crawling around the edges of one of my hangouts and trying to stir shit, while claiming they're not stirring shit, when a single basic google search of their handle indicates they are absolutely trying to stir shit

while being a grown ass adult in their fifties with no sense of personal online security, but whatever about that, I DO NOT GO ANY FURTHER THAN A BASIC GOOGLE FULL STOP.

grown ass adult, tryin' to shit up a celebrity fandom and I just - like above, I got ethics, I'm not gonna crawl down that rabbit hole. but like, she is absolutely out to shit up the place and I don't know what to do.

like, do I take just the basics of what I know and keep the mods in the loop or what? because this is a good corner of the fandom, with sane people, and I can't tell if I'm being overprotective or what.

mostly it's going to come down to ignoring her and not directly engaging, because even typing this much is way more effort than this chick deserves, really.

but it's off my chest, so there it is.

trollin' fans bein' trollin'.

Someone who comments on my blog is blocked from my good friend's blog because they're anti-slash and have stolen others' fics. All the same I can't bring myself to be anything but polite a few times we spoke on my blog. Which means that I treat people the same regardless of what I think about them. I don't like that because I want the people I like to know that I like them. Same problem in RL. (

I hate that I wasted years on a guy who left me on my birthday to go fuck around/cheat with some australian chick he met playing Wow/diablo. I really fucking hate the name 'liz' now.

I'm scared I might have BPD, but I don't want to tell anyone or even get a diagnosis because I feel like having it would make me a bad person, not to mention my brother has told me before he thinks our abusive father had BPD. Even if not BPD, I know there is something wrong with me, but if I don't get diagnosed I can pretend there isn't, at least to other people if not myself.

Having BPD doesn't make one abusive, nor is it an excuse for treating others like poop. Being diagnosed with it does not make you your father.

That said, whether or not you get diagnosed wouldn't change "whether or not" you had said disorder. And even if you think "something is wrong with you," it might not be the thing you think it is. Sometimes it's just better to know, because at least then you can deal with it first. But of course that isn't up to anyone but you.

Remember you are a person first, not a diagnosis.

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