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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-12-03 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #3256 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3256 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Man From U.N.C.L.E.]


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[Ace Attorney]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 010 secrets from Secret Submission Post #465.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post:
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2015-12-04 07:28 am (UTC)(link)
Ok permit me to be a little MRA here:

Sex positivity is for men? Really? Because as far as I've seen the Sex positivity movement has been exclusively about supporting women's sexuality (which is of course good an positive), while male sexuality is still fairly harshly demonised as creepy gross misogynistic and dangerous.

I mean I get what you're saying with the rest of this secret, but I don't think the sex positivity movement is doing jack to make male sexuality culturally acceptable.

(Anonymous) 2015-12-04 07:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Clearly you've never been on Reddit. I find it hard to believe I'm the only anon who has seen what the secret!OP is talking about. Reddit's "sex positive" /r/Sex is literally a never-ending drone of:

"I (M, 23) am straight but I wanna suck a big dick what's up with that?"

"My (M, 21) SO's (F, 20) tastes like a normal vagina (so like kinda bad amirite guys? Hyuck hyuck hyuck) how do I change it?"

"I enjoy fucking my (M, 21) ass with a strap-on but I'm afraid to ask my girlfriend to do it for me, how do I ask so that she'll 100% be cool with it?"

I've seen women pretty much like the OP who mention it just...turns them off, no weird ~homophobic~ vibes about it or anything (and I'm a homoromantic/bisexual guy who is pretty tuned into if someone is being a homophobic asshole), but it's like you're hurting their pride or something if it's something you're not into and you aren't giving them brownie points for "being open" and "exploring the taboo" or something.

(Anonymous) 2015-12-04 08:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay but that is Reddit (I am nayrt but I have never been to reddit either) and OP is specifically referencing fandom, and I have NEVER been in a fandom discussion that reads like what you or OP is talking about. Even if they do exist, I suspect OP is being oversensitive and exaggerating their frequency, or else conflating other discussion (maybe she goes on this subreddit idk) with what fandom feels.

(And I don't think OP is homophobic but I do think OP's "I love my gay friends!" comment is unneeded and makes them seem kinda whiny.)