[ SECRET POST #3264 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3264 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Folgers Coffee Commercial]


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08. http://i.imgur.com/DKoxG0z.jpg
[linked for porn; anime character + random dick]


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09. [SPOILERS for London Spy]



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10. [SPOILERS for Fargo]



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11. [SPOILERS for Borderlands 2]



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12. [WARNING for rape]



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13. [WARNING for incest]



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14. [WARNING for suicide]



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15. [WARNING for abuse]




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16. [WARNING for rape]



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17. [WARNING for rape]
http://i.imgur.com/nxf1nRw.jpg
[nudity, porn star James Deen]



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18. [WARNING for rape]

[The Tempest]


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19. [WARNING for noncon/rape]

[Hannibal]
















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Comments

[fscom]

17. [WARNING for rape]
http://i.imgur.com/nxf1nRw.jpg
[nudity, porn star James Deen]

[(Anonymous)]

I admit I've watched some of Deen's pr0n, and yeah, he seems to kind of really get into the whole "grab the woman by the neck" kind of thing.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, he's always made me suuuuper uncomfortable, but I didn't want to say anything since my porn-watching friends were acting like he was god's gift to feminism in porn or something and I thought maybe I was just being unfair.

[(Anonymous)]

You need to educate your friends. Now.

Not about him being a scumbag, but about the issues they seem to have with feminism and porn.

[(Anonymous)]

it always surprises me to hear that porn stars have fandoms, for some reason.

[(Anonymous)]

SAME ANON he always creeped me the fuck out but everyone always said he was soooo feminist so I was like... okay maybe I'm making some unfair assumptions. I am a lesbian and not really his target audience. But nah, I was right.

[(Anonymous)]

It always bugged me that people would recommend him to anyone looking for "feminist porn" without even mentioning what his porn was like. I mean, if the person said they wanted feminist male-dom BDSM porn, sure. But does it occur to any of them that some women might not want to see choking, slapping, etc?

If you'd put a trigger warning on that stuff in any other context, maybe give people a heads-up when you're recommending them porn?

[kallanda_lee]

Same tbh.

[(Anonymous)]

Yes, I am in a state of shock that a het male mainstream porn actor is not a good perons. they all seem so sweet and respectful of women.

That was sarcasm because they are literally all gross. I have not seen a single one that would be allowed to live in a civilised egalitarian society.

[(Anonymous)]

Your definition of "civilized" seems to involve a lot of mass murder.

[(Anonymous)]

What? I...what?

I don't know that many male hardcore actors, sorry, but somehow this seems like an overstatement. There are some kind of creepy guys, but not to the point that they shouldn't "be allowed to live in a civilised egalitarian society."

Ron Jeremy is supposedly a pretty nice guy, but admittedly he's from an earlier generation.

[(Anonymous)]

A good rule of a thumb is to steer clear from sadist male doms and daddy doms.

[(Anonymous)]

Which can be a problem if that's what you're into.

[(Anonymous)]

I don't watch Deen's stuff (I'm a lesbian, for one, only watch gay) but I do watch. And honestly, get real. Porn IS acting. It would have been HIS JOB to look convincing. That's like saying you ~know~ that the guy from the Hannibal show was clearly a criminal because he looked so happy eating people. I have a friend who does porn who was telling me about how completely different it actually is in the studio - people everywhere, shots taken many times, it's quite literally work, not fun sex. What you see in a porn video is not what's really happening.

I also think, while this has opened a very important dialogue about how yes, porn actors can be raped, none of us are remotely equipped to say for sure what happened. So I find this "ooh I could tell by his face he was a rapist!" to be quite a jump for a number of reasons.

[(Anonymous)]

What you see in a porn video is not what's really happening.

This.

I have a friend who used to do amateur porn. She did a scene where she was being fucked from behind while being bent over a table.

Turned out it wasn't actual Penis in Vagina sex. Her partner had to use his hand and was actually finger fucking her. It was the only way they could get the forceful, hard, pounding-table-leg action.

[(Anonymous)]

Tumblr used to worship the floor he was walking on, posting his porn gifs with cheesy captions like "This is how it should be done, she's a pornstar be he's looking into her eyes like she's so precious and cherished and appreciated and not just a piece of meat" "My beautiful feminist jewish boy <3"

[(Anonymous)]

Ok, I believe Stoya and all the others that came forward. I think he, at the very est has no comprehension between off-set and on set, and at worst, he's a fucking conniving rapist.

BUT if we're assuming he's into being violent or rough, why are we assuming the women in those scenes don't get off on being choked, hit, smacked, hair pulled, held down, whatever?

And if they are, this doesn't mean they deserve it outside of a consensual porn scene. Rape is rape.

[kallanda_lee]

I KNOW!

I mean I met several women who liked him and said they like his porn and I was like...really? The guy instantly seemed like a massive creep to me.

[(Anonymous)]

The only good domme is one with a vagina.

[(Anonymous)]

I never trusted him but I always figured it was my general distrust of most male doms making me judge the guy unfairly, since so many people insisted he was sweet and feminist. Turns out I was right about this one.

(Also: probably a good lesson about how abusers can seem handsome and charming to the outside observer.)

[(Anonymous)]

http://www.ohjoysextoy.com/james-deen/

I like how they kept praising him as feminist while they also put a 'oh btw the stuff he writes in his site are pretty creepy BUT OTHER THAN THAT HE'S A GOD'

[(Anonymous)]

BDSM has been having those kinds of revelations for a very long time. Once one dares to say that a certain dom raped them, others get the courage to follow. It's a phenomenon is common in communities (like poly and furry) that get super defensive about having no abuse and like to be covering up their abuse incidents in order to maintain that image. /been in the BDSM community since 2002

[(Anonymous)]

I am really uncomfortable about how he is already convicted in the media from the moment the woman said anything. I don't know if he raped Stoya or not and yes he has always given off a creeper vibe but the guy deserves as chance to tell his side. And a chance for the whole world to know what really happened before he is strung up in the streets.

[(Anonymous)]

Was he not the guy who had like an open policy where fans could potentially hook up with him for a rape scene? Did I read that on a porn blog somewhere? Anyone?

[(Anonymous)]

there's also the joke he and his friends made about raping 12 year olds