[ SECRET POST #3264 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3264 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Folgers Coffee Commercial]


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08. http://i.imgur.com/DKoxG0z.jpg
[linked for porn; anime character + random dick]


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09. [SPOILERS for London Spy]



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10. [SPOILERS for Fargo]



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11. [SPOILERS for Borderlands 2]



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12. [WARNING for rape]



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13. [WARNING for incest]



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14. [WARNING for suicide]



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15. [WARNING for abuse]




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16. [WARNING for rape]



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17. [WARNING for rape]
http://i.imgur.com/nxf1nRw.jpg
[nudity, porn star James Deen]



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18. [WARNING for rape]

[The Tempest]


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19. [WARNING for noncon/rape]

[Hannibal]
















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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Those first lines don't make sense to me, but maybe I'm being naive. Do people really start new relationships with a conversation about how many relationships they have or haven't been in before?

Like, "Hi I'm Susan and I've had five boyfriends." "Hi Susan, I'm Dave, I've had one girlfriend."??

[(Anonymous)]

IIRC, the lines at the top of the secret isn't a conversation, it's an internal monologue.

[(Anonymous)]

Sorry, I wasn't clear, I understood that it was internal thoughts, but I wasn't sure how they made sense. They're internally angsting about having to explain to someone that they don't have relationship experience? Is this a thing that becomes a conversation piece when you're in/getting into a relationship?

[(Anonymous)]

It's not a requirement to discuss it, no, but I think it's normal for people to have these angsty thoughts in the privacy of their minds, sometimes. If you feel self-conscious about something, it's not that weird to worry if it will be an issue for other people, too, even if rationally you know it probably won't.

[(Anonymous)]

In the show, the characters had been on a few dates, then they attempted to have sex, and it's implied that it did not go well because the inexperienced character was too tense. The quoted conversation takes place afterwards.

I wouldn't expect this to be a big deal for many younger people, but once you reach a certain age, a total lack of experience with both sex and relationships can be kind of an issue. The sort of cluelessness that's charming or at least expected when you're a teenager is not something a lot of people want to deal with as adults.

If you've gotten to, say, your thirties, and you've never dated or had sex, that's somewhat unusual. And if it's not because you've deliberately chosen not to, or because you've never had access to compatible potential partners (being the only lesbian you know, for example), it suggests to many people that there's something wrong with you. So it may not be something you're keen to advertise to a potential partner.

[(Anonymous)]

Why not? I'm not sure I understand why you think this is so far fetched. People angst over being too "old" to still be a virgin all the time, they angst over being alone and dateless, they angst over being possibly unloveable. You might not worry about such things, but it's a concern for some people.