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But men can get raped?

Yes, they do. And because of ignorant people like you they have difficulty getting the after care they need and support from the criminal justice system.

What are you attacking me for? I made the comment as OP seem to assume that only women can get raped. I'm saying men can too.

nayrt but why are you saying that to this anon?

Because it was phrased like a question and not a statement. The question mark was not useful in this instance.

Sorry for the wrong response.

It's really common to phrase stuff like that with a question mark at the end when you feel like you're pointing out something really obvious to someone. Anon's comment is pretty much exactly what I would have said if it weren't already said.

By other men.

Or by women, or by non-binary people.

Nope.

I know a guy who was raped, while he was sleeping, by a friend of his sister's.

Yeah, nope.

I mean mostly nope. It can happen but it's super fucking rare. Rape is 98% a male committed crime. Mostly white males at that.

No, you mean nope. Rape is something only men can do.

Not exclusively. Penetrative rape isn't even something "Only" men do. Sure the forcing someone to penetrate might belong in a different class than other forms of rape,but even women can rape with other objects. I do not mean to imply this is common or a social issue like the rape of women, but it's disingenuous to say "Only men can do it".

Nope. Penetration doesn't have anything to do with it. Rape is about power structures, and men are at the top.

Societally yes, this is true. But individual power can lead to rare cases of the woan exercising her personal power over a man. Ronda Rousey could quite easily rape a starving man if she was ever so inclined. The lack of inclination is one of the reasons female perpetrators are so rare, that and as you point out the society wide power imbalance against nearly all women.

You're not understanding. Rape is defined by its power structures. Individual power has nothing to do with it. Men cannot be raped. Women cannot rape. Rape is top-down, period.

Re: CW Rape

(Anonymous) - 2016-01-20 01:26 (UTC) - Expand

raspberryrain - 2016-01-20 02:51 (UTC) - Expand

When did the term "rape" get the same sociological treatment as "racism" and "sexism?"

kallanda_lee - 2016-01-20 01:54 (UTC) - Expand

a_potato - 2016-01-20 02:19 (UTC) - Expand

ooh we got a badass troll over here folks!

Grow up.

what does it mean when a troll trying to stir wank with their ~edge tells you to grow up?

Oh, so it's perfectly justified, then?

why the fuck you lyin
why you always lyin
mmm oh my god
stop fuckin lyin

that's one of my favorite memes

stop using it for such a bad reason

at least you admit it's a bad reason