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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-24 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3308 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3308 ⌋

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elaminator: (Dragon Age: Inquisition (Othain))

[personal profile] elaminator 2016-01-24 10:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, man, it's the worst feeling when you know someone is going through a difficult period but you don't have the mental reserves to give them the time and attention they need. It's important to be there for loved ones, but overdoing it to the point of making yourself miserable isn't the answer; you'll feel chipped away at until you've got nothing left to give and that is not a healthy road to go down.

So I understand that even if you want to help, sometimes you don't feel like you're in a good place for it, and that's okay. (Again, you have to think about yourself.) Even if you try to help, there's only so much you can do. (Not that being there isn't enough, it can be a big comfort, but when it gets down to it the issues that exist have to be dealt with by them.)