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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-24 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3308 ]


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Sex for sale

(Anonymous) 2016-01-24 10:41 pm (UTC)(link)
So I'm thinking about losing my virginity to a hooker. Anyone have any experience with male sex workers or erotic massages?

Re: Sex for sale

(Anonymous) 2016-01-24 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Ladyboy anon has some experience in that field. She came on here last year asking the same thing.

Re: Sex for sale

(Anonymous) 2016-01-24 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm a sex worker but not an escort. The only interaction I have with male sex workers is when they ask to do content share. Basically, they want to fuck me on cam despite me clearly stating I don't anything remotely that explicit. I don't even do below the waist nudity :/

So, be careful. Check reviews from other clients. Make sure they respect boundaries.

Re: Sex for sale

(Anonymous) 2016-01-24 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Save yourself the money and ask friends to see if they can find a trusted person who will fuck you.

Re: Sex for sale

(Anonymous) 2016-01-24 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Or check out Tinder or OK!Cupid or something free if you haven't already.

Re: Sex for sale

(Anonymous) 2016-01-24 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
+10

Re: Sex for sale

(Anonymous) 2016-01-24 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Happn can also be fairly decent, depending on your area.

Re: Sex for sale

(Anonymous) 2016-01-24 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
idk... from what I hear about hetero men, many of them are not so good about taking care of their (especially female) partners. if op is female and wants a good first experience that will be about her, that type of thing might be a little riskier, in a way.

Re: Sex for sale

(Anonymous) 2016-01-24 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
This really depends on the man. My first time was with a random dude I met in a club. Gave me multiple orgasms, so an A+ first time, and I have several friends with the same experience. As well as some friends with bad experiences.

Honestly, with a stranger you never know what you are going to get. I assume this goes for men too, because they might find a woman who just lies there and does nothing. I can't imagine that being a good experience for them either.

Re: Sex for sale

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, wow, that sounds awesome. But now I'm wondering - awesome first time - so were the follow-ups kind of disappointing in that 'hey, I guess it isn't that good every time'?

Re: Sex for sale

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
Well, the dude that took my virginity was just a one night stand. I really just wanted to get laid and wasn't really looking for a relationship at the time. It was also the only time I've had sex with a random person as, as fate would have it, I met my current SO through common friends not long after (And things with him are great sexually and otherwise)

Re: Sex for sale

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 04:41 am (UTC)(link)
Sounds like you ended up with a win-win situation! :)
blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

Re: Sex for sale

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-01-25 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
from what I hear about hetero men

You could always find a bisexual man.

Re: Sex for sale

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sure this is great advice, but you're assuming OP is attractive enough to appeal to people they find attractive. That's where escorts really win in this debate, honestly.
caerbannog: (Default)

Re: Sex for sale

[personal profile] caerbannog 2016-01-25 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
Assuming there's some kind of regulation or rating system where you are, I'd go with the hooker. Unfortunately on occaison the tinder/okcupid hookups may lie about their STI history

(not me! not me! a "friend" who admitted to me he was in the middle of a HIV scare/testing but continued hooking up with people on tinder for one-night stands. I was horrified)

Re: Sex for sale

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
As long as people use condoms, things are fairly safe. Sadly, I know a lot of people in my area doesn't bother with that as long as the girl is on the pill, because babies are scarier than HIV or other STD it seems :/

Re: Sex for sale

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
I've considered the same thing. Mostly because I don't feel attractive and I've never had anyone interested. I would like to lose my virginity at some point. I think I'd be more confident getting out there if I already had sex.

Plus, I feel like a male hooker would be a good way to lose virginity because he'd be focused on my pleasure and it would be about getting me off and making my first time good.

OP

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 02:38 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you guys.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 04:30 am (UTC)(link)
This non-virgin would like to tell you that losing your virginity is overrated. Don't jump so fast to lose it.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 06:11 am (UTC)(link)
OP's 27.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 05:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I think most of the people here know there aren't many users under 20 lurking around here.