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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-09 06:24 pm

[ SECRET POST #3324 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3324 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Dishonored]


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[One Piece]


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[Kung Fu Panda]


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[Music video: Poets of the Fall, "Daze" (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=di7NMssrqsE)]


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Re: Things you wish you could say to people

(Anonymous) 2016-02-10 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
To one of the resource teachers I work with, who is a living, breathing example of an adult on the autistic spectrum: "Please just stop talking to me." She's not a bad person but dear sweet jesus, she doesn't know when to stop talking. Something that takes two sentences to say, she needs 15 minutes. It doesn't help that she reminds me of an adult family member who is also ASD and whom I don't deal with very well.

I'd also like to tell my step father to fuck off when he "teases" me. He's a fucking asshole, always has been always will be. The only that stops me is that it would upset my mother quite a bit.
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Re: Things you wish you could say to people

[personal profile] philstar22 2016-02-10 03:35 am (UTC)(link)
I don't understand how hard it is for some people to understand that not everyone likes "teasing." My parents tease me all the time and then act shocked when I get annoyed. Yes, I know you are just teasing. You think you would have learned by now that I don't like being teased and that I'm going to react badly to it every time.

Re: Things you wish you could say to people

(Anonymous) 2016-02-10 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Or I'm just teasing's cousin: YOU'RE SO SENSITIVE!

I mean, everyone else they "tease" never objects, which means they obviously must be on board with it, so it's a damn mystery why you aren't, you big jerky, whiny crybaby!

Re: Things you wish you could say to people

(Anonymous) 2016-02-10 04:32 am (UTC)(link)
You could try being firmer about boundaries with your co-worker. It won't be easy, but it'd probably be better for your work relationship in the long run because you won't grow to resent her so much.

"[Name], I'm really busy and need to finish this thing, I'll talk to you later!" and then leave.

"[Name], sorry, I don't mind chatting but I've got to make a call in a couple minutes, can you make it brief?"

If she's reasonable and aware of her issues, she'll probably appreciate the guidance. Even if she's not, stronger social cues might help curb the excess of her behavior.

As for your stepfather...

*with neutral/slightly puzzled expression* "I don't understand. What do you mean by that?" Repeat ad nauseum until he is tired of explaining his stupid "joke".

*neutral reaction like he just told you it was raining outside* "Okay." *leaves the room*

If he's looking to provoke you, don't give him the satisfaction. Look bored, or inattentive like you barely heard what he said. Spend as little time around him as possible.