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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-12 07:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #3327 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3327 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Leonard Snart/Ray Palmer, DC's Legends of Tomorrow]


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05. [SPOILERS for Downton Abbey]





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06.[WARNING for suicide]



[Mare Internum]


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07. [WARNING for sexual assault]



[Love Live - sorry anon who wanted it Saturday, trying to keep the warning ones on Friday]


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08. [WARNING for rape, abuse, etc]





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09. [WARNING for rape/dub-con, child abuse]





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10. [WARNING for rape]





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11. [WARNING for underage sex]






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12. [WARNING for sexual abuse, child abuse]




























Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #475.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: Controversial (Non-Fandom) Confessions

[personal profile] a_potato 2016-02-13 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
I do, too.

It's okay as long as there's that recognition that what they do is horrible. And I think that one of the mistakes that we make is in thinking that sympathy and empathy can only be felt when it's "deserved." I think we lose some of our humanity when we start placing limits on our ability to empathize, and I think it needs to be made more clear that one can empathize without condoning.

Re: Controversial (Non-Fandom) Confessions

(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
Well said.

There are some people who just seemed to get dealt a really raw hand in life, and while that certainly doesn't excuse any horrible things they do, it's easy to feel bad for the rough circumstances they DID grow up in, and wonder how they might've turned out had they had some sort of stable influence somewhere along the way.

I'm always interested in stories of victims who can forgive and show empathy towards the people who committed horrible crimes against them or someone they love. People tend to often assume that victims of violent crimes will naturally and automatically be all about seeking revenge or calling for the criminal's death, and no, that's not always the case.

Re: Controversial (Non-Fandom) Confessions

(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
Pretty much, yes.