[ SECRET POST #3327 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3327 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Leonard Snart/Ray Palmer, DC's Legends of Tomorrow]


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05. [SPOILERS for Downton Abbey]





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06.[WARNING for suicide]



[Mare Internum]


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07. [WARNING for sexual assault]



[Love Live - sorry anon who wanted it Saturday, trying to keep the warning ones on Friday]


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08. [WARNING for rape, abuse, etc]





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09. [WARNING for rape/dub-con, child abuse]





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10. [WARNING for rape]





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11. [WARNING for underage sex]






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12. [WARNING for sexual abuse, child abuse]




























Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #475.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Controversial (Non-Fandom) Confessions

[(Anonymous)]

I'm mixed on this.

On the one hand, I wouldn't judge a 20-year-old who thought he was sleeping with an 18-year-old (but was younger), or who met a 16-year-old somewhere and connected with them before age was even put on the table.

On the other hand, if someone is well over 20 years old, and you deliberately seek out 16-year-olds to date then yes, I judge the shit out of that kind of person. If someone is over 20 and they find out their date is 16 and they don't even attempt to put the brakes on the relationship, or to even slow it down, then I think something must be wrong with that person.

I tend to give those of college age a pass, depending on the situation. The human brain isn't fully matured until age 25, but I do think there are some intentional pervs.

Re: Controversial (Non-Fandom) Confessions

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT Yeah, my reasoning for the age of consent being 16 is that I think 16 year olds are capable of understanding consent and making that decision, and I don't think it's right for me to step in and act like I get to control their bodies at that age. But just because in my hypothetical world it would be LEGAL for 30 year olds to seek out and sleep with 16 year olds, doesn't mean it wouldn't be disgusting and I would think anyone who did that had something wrong with them.

I will amend my previous 20 year old age limit though, because you're right, college age gets a bit of a pass due to the mental maturity phase.

Re: Controversial (Non-Fandom) Confessions

[(Anonymous)]

I was 17 when I started dating a 25 year old. He wasn't looking to date 16 year olds... he was interested in dating me, specifically. Was I fully matured at that age? Nope, and for that reason I wouldn't automatically recommend it to any teenager in a similar position. You have to watch out for the signs of an unhealthy relationship, just as you do at any age. It's just that being a teenager and relatively inexperienced makes you more vulnerable, so you have to be a lot more careful and go slowly.

We've been happily married for twelve years now, BTW.

Re: Controversial (Non-Fandom) Confessions

[(Anonymous)]

As the OP here I would like to clarify that I do think there are exceptions! There are always exceptions and I'm glad you and your husband are happy together. I just think that as a whole adults do not tend to have best interests in mind when they date teenagers.