[ SECRET POST #3329 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3329 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Anyone ever realized someone never had your best interests at heart?

[badass_tiger]

I had a friend who I think was actually well-meaning, but they were just so bad at being sympathetic that I stopped talking to them when I got depression because they couldn't turn off that part of them that insisted on being right all the time. We were both strongly religious, but of different religions, and while that was something we initially bonded over, I realised that they weren't good for me when I was having a really bad day because of religious and family obligations, and instead of trying to cheer me up or anything, they started telling me how dumb my religion is. And I felt bad about calling them out for it!

It got to the point that just seeing a notification of a message from them instantly triggered a depressed feeling in me, even when I was getting better. After I stopped talking to them, I had nightmares for a month about them chasing me down and making me feel bad about myself all over again. I can't believe how badly they scarred me, thinking back on it, especially because I do think they genuinely liked me. They were just really bad at the whole friendship thing.

Re: Anyone ever realized someone never had your best interests at heart?

[(Anonymous)]

Sounds like they were also manipulative - whether or not they realized it. Definitely wasn't your fault!

(Actually, this sounds a lot like a friend I had in my fandom days.)

Re: Anyone ever realized someone never had your best interests at heart?

[diet_poison]

I hope both for their sake and others that they've since realized how they were behaving and made efforts to fix it.

(Completely unrelated: your icon is super pretty, what's it from?)

Re: Anyone ever realized someone never had your best interests at heart?

[badass_tiger]

It's official art of Sanjay from Harvest Moon: A New Beginning. He's my favourite dating sim candidate <3