[ SECRET POST #3329 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3329 ⌋

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Comments

Re: perspective

[(Anonymous)]

I think they're misidentifying the real problem.

The real problem is when the story acts as if the problems and struggles of the mentally ill person affect the people around them worse. When the mentally ill person is treated as a burden on people around them, and just not treating the mentally ill person like a person, or treating them as if they're not as important as everyone else.

I don't think it's automatically morally wrong that any story involving mental illness isn't from the mentally ill person's perspective. But you just need to treat the mentally ill person with respect and treat their problems with respect.

Don't give the non mentally ill person a case of the "it's all about ME" in regards to their spouse's problem.

As someone who has mental conditions and struggled with mental illnesses, it's very infuriating and insulting to be treated like you are someone else's problem or burden. Or to have someone else act like struggles you deal with hurt them more than you, the person dealing with them first hand.

Treating a person like a burden or making yourself to be the biggest sufferer of their illness is what's skeevy. And altogether downright disrespectful.

Just remember to show respect to the mentally ill person as a human being.

Re: perspective

[(Anonymous)]

Well, potentially the problems and struggles of the mentally ill person could indeed result in at least some of the people around them suffering worse than the person with the mental illness--what about dependent small children? I think there's a case to be made that if they're abused or neglected as a result of the mental illness, they might suffer even more than the patient.