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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-14 04:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #3329 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3329 ⌋

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Re: perspective

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2016-02-14 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
The only way I could see this being skeevy is if it's fetishizing mental illness or if it's from the perspective of "depression is harder on me than it is on my partner".

I mean, the reality is that it's hard for everyone. Being support in those kinds of situations is challenging because it's a situation you can't fix, and it's not one that really gives you a break. You would like to just say some magic words and have the problem vanish, but you can't do that. It's also very draining to go through, on a personal level.

I wouldn't say there's anything wrong with acknowledging how difficult it can be to be the partner of someone who is depressed.