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fandomsecrets2016-02-14 04:08 pm
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Re: Anyone ever realized someone never had your best interests at heart?
(Anonymous) 2016-02-15 05:50 am (UTC)(link)Then my dad was diagnosed with cancer and I spent four years dealing with watching him die slowly. I didn't want to hang out or do anything after his death, but I was dealing with the grief in my own way and did seek outside help from a doctor to get help.
My friend/co-worker was pissed off. I didn't want to go see movies for quite a while. I wanted to work on healing, and I told her that it wasn't anything against her. I just didn't feel like I could be out doing stuff yet. And later, I had some issues with chronic illness and depression that affected my work.
I found out, not too long ago, that she was talking shit about me to everyone at work. She was making up reasons why I wasn't there (she told my boss's boss that I was just avoiding work because I hated it -- which isn't true at all), telling people about medical issues I have that I told her in confidence (one of them is very embarrassing and is a major reason that I don't date anyone), and spreading lie all around our workplace about me. The final straw was when I found out she met my best friend for dinner just to bitch about me. My best friend told her, "I don't know what your problem is, but I don't talk about people behind their backs. If you have a problem with her, go talk to her."
We both still work in the same place and I'll be nice, but I'll never trust her with anything again. It makes me feel sick to know that I'm probably not the only person she treated like this, but it makes me happy to know that my best friend didn't fall for her backstabbing.
Re: Anyone ever realized someone never had your best interests at heart?
She sounds like a very unhappy person.
I'm so sorry both for that, and for your dad...I hope you had plenty of awesome and supportive friends and family during that time and after.
Re: Anyone ever realized someone never had your best interests at heart?
(Anonymous) 2016-02-16 03:04 am (UTC)(link)When I hear about people like this, I just think, it must REALLY suck to be them.
I'm sorry she was such a shit to you. But at least your friend kicks ass.