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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-14 04:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #3329 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3329 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-02-15 10:30 am (UTC)(link)
People are being kind of condescending in this thread, hey? Like, I don't think you have anything to be embarrassed about with this kink, OP, but at the same time I definitely understand why you feel uncomfortable talking about it.

I feel similar about some of my biggest kinks, which don't have names and are hard to even describe. Like, I'm not embarrassed about my come play kink, or my knotting kink, even though those kinks are fairly filthy, because they have names and somehow they just feel more normal and valid. But then I have other kinks that just feel weirder or more embarrassing somehow, because they haven't been normalized.

Personally, I would like to nominate the term Xenophilia to describe your particular kink. In fact, Xenophilia may be, objectively, the correct term to describe it. Though I suppose it could be misleading; some people might think it means you have a kink for foreigners.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-15 10:35 am (UTC)(link)
A couple of people are being kind of condescending, I should have said. Didn't mean to imply everyone was being.