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⌈ Secret Post #3335 ⌋

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(Red Dead Redemption, The Witcher 3: Wild Hunt)

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[Star Trek: The Next Generation]

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[One Direction, "What Makes You Beautiful"]

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[Hanayome wa Motodanshi]

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[Driver: San Francisco, Jun and Ayumu]

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[Naruto]

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[Ash Ketchum/Professor Oak]

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Without someone coming along to call you a radfem?

Usually because you post radfem shit all over the place, OP.

lol this

Ok. But it seems "Radfem shit" is defined by "I don't like this, and I want to insult this feminist OP, so this must be radfem shit, and OP must be a radfem."

Yeah, you keep telling yourself that. Even when multiple people are telling you otherwise.

As soon as someone goes "as a feminist, I..." and makes that their singular priority over everything else including other people and relationships, they're not actually looking for discussion or advice. They're looking for backpats and echo chamber agreement. As proven by the thread above where every single suggestion is rejected and every question is answered defensively.

I don't even care about radfems but I'd like people to be honest about when they want commiseration and when they want advice, so I can ignore them.

I tell you what I'll do. I'll post the first suggestion I got, then I'll highlight all the bits that were inflamatory, insulting, or designed to make a person defensive, and we'll see what you think:

"Not that I agree with MRA shit, but...

How about instead of avoiding the topic, you actually engage with him Implying I didn't already do this, and didn't say I already did this like an adultImplying I'm acting childishly and find out why he feels it necessary to keep watching these things? What's the real reason he wants to hear/see those opinions? You can't know while you're avoiding the subject. implying I'm being irrational and just ignoring the problem

Ostensibly this is someone you care about. And if you care about the whole person, surely you feel that their personal opinions and viewpoints are worth entertaining? If not, I'm afraid the "dump him" advice is the best option, Giving me advice I explicitly said I couldn't use because he probably deserves someone who does. Implying I'm the problem. Implying he is better than I am and deserves better than me"

lol wow, you just want us to agree with you so much, don't you.

AYRT

I already told you what I think and using the tone argument on someone else doesn't change it.

It's very apparent all you want to hear is that you're right and he's being unreasonable and it's not wrong for you to want to control what he watches. Or just anything that enables you as a victim of everything.

Sorry. The world isn't your echochamber. You asked for advice and you got it.

because those people are in love with men made out of straw

Nice!

The main reason being your posts are only obestensibly about feminism and more about wanting people to agree with you.

Using the word feminism is not some get out of jail free card.

Hell, feminists don't always agree with feminists. There are a bunch of issues we've been debating since the movement began like "should women be drafted", "sexiness: when is it enpowerment and when is it not", "women and violence in media", etc.

This com is becoming toxic again that's why. On all sides.

because FS has crawled so far up its own tumblr-hating ass that any topic about feminism gets you called a troll

because calling people 'names' is fun and should not be taking seriously... that's why...

If I was called a radfem I'd just smile and say thank you!

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Not the anon radfem everyone's hating on.