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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-02 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #3346 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3346 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Donald Trump / Milo Yiannopoulos)



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[Pathologic]


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[Legends of Tomorrow]


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[Tom Hiddleston in Crimson Peak]


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(How to be a Serial Killer)


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[Pretty Little Liars]


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[Star Trek: Deep Space Nine]


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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-03-03 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
Frankly your post makes me think you don't understand men.

I mean, I concur there's all sort of things wrong in the mens rights movement, but you seem to see men as a monolithic mass, while obviously they're individual human beings.

(Anonymous) 2016-03-03 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
That's fair. I suppose I'm not so much talking about men as masculinity. Masculinity can be lost in all sorts of ways, and pretending you're a victim and need society's permission to be masculine is one of them
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-03-03 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
I think that's a tricky thing. I do believe there is such a thing as toxic masculinity, and that is does affect those men who do not adhere to those standards of masculinity. (look at how many insults are based at undermining masculinity, implying you're gay, or feminine, or weak).

I'm not sure that would fall under the mra movement, but guys complaining about that do have a point.

I think "society" is another one of those monolithic terms. I'm pretty sure that no matter what you do, people will criticize, it's just the nature of things.

I'm not a fan of victimhood cults in general, they tend to focus on wallowing in things rather than fixing things, so yeah.