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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-02 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #3346 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3346 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Donald Trump / Milo Yiannopoulos)



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[Pathologic]


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[Legends of Tomorrow]


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[Tom Hiddleston in Crimson Peak]


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(How to be a Serial Killer)


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[Pretty Little Liars]


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[Star Trek: Deep Space Nine]


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Re: Weight/dating/sexuality

(Anonymous) 2016-03-03 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
You don't need to make an excuse to anyone. If someone is nosy, you can just say "Oh I'm not interested right now" (they don't need to know that you may never want one, its your life)

If you want to lose weight, lose it for you, to make yourself happy. Don't think about "oh god people will expect me to date now" think about the things you DO want from losing weight to encourage yourself, whatever that may be.

Re: Weight/dating/sexuality

(Anonymous) 2016-03-03 02:10 am (UTC)(link)
OP

With my family I feel like eventually "not right now" isn't going to work, and I don't know what to do at that point. Maybe I need to worry about that once it happens, though.

That's what I keep trying to tell myself, but honestly, I'm not sure WHY I really want to, other than that being thin is more socially acceptable. I feel like so many people use being able to get a significant other or sex as their main motivation for losing weight and since that's not mine, I don't know why I want to, honestly, other than that being thin is just "better" and it would be kind of cool to wear a smaller clothing size. Of course, being healthier is a big part of it, but technically I'm only a little overweight now and according to my doctor it's not enough to cause health problems so I'm kind of like...what's the point?

The whole situation is just really bothering me and I don't know what to do about it. :(