[ SECRET POST #3354 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3354 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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09. [ warning for homophobia / transphobia / misogyny take your pick, people seem to be divided on this one ]













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Comments

[philstar22]

I was a little unclear on this secret. Are you saying that she doesn't like transwomen in the sense of not thinking they are real women? Or are you just saying she's not attracted to them. If so, people are allowed to be attracted to the things they are attracted to. You can't make someone be attracted to someone they aren't. And genitals are a big part of attraction for some people, and there is nothing wrong with that.

But if it is the former, then she does sound awful. I'm just confused by the wording because I don't think not being attracted to someone is transphobic and it sounded like you were maybe talking about that?

[(Anonymous)]

I think really the "transphobic" part OP is referring to is the simultaneous attraction to transmen and erasure of their identity as transmen.

[philstar22]

Ah, okay, that's totally transphobic. They are men, and denying that is wrong. I just had trouble understanding the secret. Too many words. I missed that bit completely.

[(Anonymous)]

DA

I thought the same thing. Being a lesbian who isn't into women with penises is up to them, that's the same thing as lesbians who aren't into short girls or tall girls or redheads or whatever. Saying you're into trans men but you're still a lesbian i.e. woman who likes women is edging into that transphobia territory

[(Anonymous)]

I disagree strongly.

I think "lesbian" is usually a broad enough term to include women who are vagina-sexual. They're not "pansexual," & they're not quite conventionally "bisexual."

You don't really have to cash in your Lez card because this particular person is a trans man and not just a super-butch dyke.

[(Anonymous)]

Nobody is saying to cash in your Lez card, that is an overreactive exaggeration.

'I am a lesbian but will make an exception for trans men' is not the same as 'I am a lesbian and see no reason why liking trans men would make me any less of a lesbian or confuse anyone b/c vagina' with all its transphobic undertones including the assumption that all trans men still have vaginas even