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fandomsecrets2016-03-14 07:00 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2016-03-14 07:00 pm
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⌈ Secret Post #3358 ⌋
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Re: We were in the kitchen, but now it's life or death
(Anonymous) 2016-03-15 07:31 am (UTC)(link)Unfortunately you can't change them but you can change how you react to them and see them. Every time you feel you're getting annoyed by their massive toolness, take deep breaths and try to recognize your own reactions and feelings. Try to be kind to yourself and change that inner dialog that this person sets off. Oh, and try to keep that bozo out of your head since they don't add anything of value in there.
Since they're a family member, I assume the dynamics of your relationship have always been there? Can you remember when was the first time they made you feel like crap? Talk kindly to that inner child and say to that child all the things you hoped you had heard back then. Since what this boils down to is re-wiring your brain, try to take a look of your feelings as often as you can, and remember to be kind to yourself.